LemonKiss
Well-known member
Hey people: Wonderful news. Not too long ago. being shy got me so down I was suicidal. I got therapy and medicine. Therapy was a joke. I couldn't talk to a stranger about my problems! And the medicine worked alright but I wanted to be better without it you know?
So here's what I did (I PROMISE IT WILL WORK FOR YOU):
Changed my attitude. I made pacts to be postitive for one whole day. I tried it one school day. It was the best day of school ever. I didn't let anything get me down and everyone kept talking to me because I was so happy and approachable. It's so wonderful when your mind is on your side! We were buddies! And now, thats the attitude I keep. Positive.
I began talking to people. To me, people used to seem like a different species to me. I just couldn't relate to them. And then I just said screw this I might as well try. Here's how: While you're rockin' on your positive out look and probably smiling inside out, look around for a quiet person like you, someone you know a little or someone you have something in common with. For example, I asked a girl in my art class about her projects. She wound up telling me she wants to be an art teacher. And this was the first time we ever talked.
When talking to people, look them in the eyes and take deep breaths. They are just like you-another person. Then, don't blurt an answer. Think first if you need to. Speak calmy and slowly.
Most importantly, realize this: If you are nice, polite, and care about them, everyone will love you. No one cares if you are a tad shy just like no one cares if you're a genius. People like being around people who like them and who make them feel special. They will feel special if you ask them things.
And for those thinking it's too late. I didn't start talking to them and they'd think it was weird: totally untrue! You'll be so surpired when you find this out. If you got nothing out of reading this just get this: People don't know everything and they want to talk to you!!!!!!
I am so happy all the time now. And without a religious convert or joining a cult! I did it on my own terms. I didn't force myself into a totally outgoing loud mouth. I just found a way to accept myself and talk to people.
So here's what I did (I PROMISE IT WILL WORK FOR YOU):
Changed my attitude. I made pacts to be postitive for one whole day. I tried it one school day. It was the best day of school ever. I didn't let anything get me down and everyone kept talking to me because I was so happy and approachable. It's so wonderful when your mind is on your side! We were buddies! And now, thats the attitude I keep. Positive.
I began talking to people. To me, people used to seem like a different species to me. I just couldn't relate to them. And then I just said screw this I might as well try. Here's how: While you're rockin' on your positive out look and probably smiling inside out, look around for a quiet person like you, someone you know a little or someone you have something in common with. For example, I asked a girl in my art class about her projects. She wound up telling me she wants to be an art teacher. And this was the first time we ever talked.
When talking to people, look them in the eyes and take deep breaths. They are just like you-another person. Then, don't blurt an answer. Think first if you need to. Speak calmy and slowly.
Most importantly, realize this: If you are nice, polite, and care about them, everyone will love you. No one cares if you are a tad shy just like no one cares if you're a genius. People like being around people who like them and who make them feel special. They will feel special if you ask them things.
And for those thinking it's too late. I didn't start talking to them and they'd think it was weird: totally untrue! You'll be so surpired when you find this out. If you got nothing out of reading this just get this: People don't know everything and they want to talk to you!!!!!!
I am so happy all the time now. And without a religious convert or joining a cult! I did it on my own terms. I didn't force myself into a totally outgoing loud mouth. I just found a way to accept myself and talk to people.