How do you think people percieve you

Bo592

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I thank people see me as rude, dum guy with no manners. but that because of my sickness from SA. But the way I see it is the most important thing is the way I see in myself. --I blame the reason of me being dum and rude on the fact that I am nerous all the time I am nerous all the time because I am not confident so if I lesson to what people thank of me as being dum and rude how well I get better. So I find that I am in charge of making me happy.
 

Hikari~

Member
Alott of Ppl see me as that girl who never talks , is quiet , shy , always wants to be byherself , cold...but they don't realize we have SA and that I actually Want friends and WAnt to socialize >< but its hard lol .
 

Dr. Doom

Well-known member
Wierd, awkward, gross. I get the feeling though that some kids would like to get to know me better, but I just don't want to get close to anybody.
 

R3K

Well-known member
Scary, stalker, evil, angry... i also get people who ask me if i'm in a rock band or if i'm deeply into punk or metal music. i guess my mohawk hair-do causes this :confused:.
 
mysterious. Ppl think you're mysterious! Nobody thinks youre a scary loon stalker they think its all very mystique. It took me years to figure this out. They think were mysterious!
 

Phoenixx

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... i also get people who ask me if i'm in a rock band or if i'm deeply into punk or metal music. i guess my mohawk hair-do causes this :confused:.
^ I've always found it amusing when people assume what I listen to. I've had a lot of people take one look at me and instantly think I listen to country. :eek::rolleyes: I laugh every tiime. And then the look on their face when they really find out I listen to metal and hard rock. Priceless. :D
 

Smunchy

New member
Just wondering how you think other people see you. I think because I am so quiet and awkward around people, they often see me as being unfriendly/creepy and just plain unlikeable. Which I dont think I am at all.

^^Me too

My list: quiet, unfriendly, lazy, boring, awkward, ugly, fat

The only person that knows me completely is my boyfriend, he is the only person that I feel at ease with.
 

dragonoth

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Actually, I find that people genuinely like me when I expect them to think less of me i.e. a bit strange and awkward. It surprises me all the time when I get invited out somewhere (for example) by someone I didn't think paid much attention to me
 

Flyingheart

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I think people find me weird, freakishly quiet, intimidating and dull. So it surprised me one time when someone described me as cute (not looks wise). I guess because I'm in a way scared of people. Still, I think of myself as the former.
 

Felgen

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I was previously perceived as immature and dorky. Nowadays though, everyone gets a good first impression of me; then after a few hours everyone thinks I'm an arrogant jerk.
 

Kiwong

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Worrying about how people percieve me, particularly those that are unimportant to me, is a major problem with my anxiety. I often worried about what a complete stranger might have said.

A therapist told me to draw a hand, and list all the people that were inside the hand, the people you trust, the people that support you. Anyone outside the hand is not worth worrying about.

I think there are people who percieve me positively, and I try to tune into that more and more rather than listen to those that are critical.
 

corvax

Member
I always feel people think I'm boring, awkward and strange.

I think I probably come off as aloof and uninterested in people, too, which isn't my intent at all. I don't extend myself in social situations because I'm sure they think I'm what I described above, not because I'm uninterested in them.
 
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