How do I meet a friend/BF now?

[Moonie]

I was in a relationship for almost 2 years (November 2004- October 2006). For the last past year, the relationship was rocky. It was a mixture of both of our faults. However, I found something written in his journal (that he must have forgotten that he showed me a couple years ago) that really was the last draw. I can't look him in the face after what I've read. SO, when he texted me a few nights ago and said "what's up", I told him never to talk to me again. And when he asked why, I copied/pasted what I found.

Anyway, I met him online. He was the only person I ever met in real life from the internet. So, I was more comfortable with the meet. Plus, I was drunk when we first met at a club. He is bascially my social circle. I don't have any close friends really. I think with time, he will move on because he does have people he can talk to.. But now, I am back to being lonely again. I am not sure I want to do the internet thing again. BUT, how do I go about meeting someone. And where? I had some guys approach me while in the relationship, but that's passed now. And it really does seem true that once you are in a relationship it seems like people want to get with you. And once single, you can't find anyone. Right now, I am taking a break and focusing on school.. But maybe come winter break, I might want to get out there more.. Any ideas?

 

[Nubly]

thats simple. move to las vegas. im kidding

i have no advice but i know what youre going through. i was in a three year relationship (only one ive been in) and its been hard to find another person. its been two years since we've broken up and i still havent met anyone. when i was with her, there were some girls that were interested in me. now that im single, it seems that no one is interested in me. maybe we just notice this more when we arent alone?

 

[yay]

hi