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MikeyC

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Yea I think if I can get past that I will be a LOT better lol It is good :)

I'm seriously thinking about it and that is true I can just stop wearing it. I have a few I like its just there's so many I like its hard to choose lol
Haha well, I can't really help you with that one. :) I'm sure you'll choose wisely, though.
 

razzle dazzle rose

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I am a bit tired...bedtime soon. (I had been feeling awful earlier. But after talking with someone I feel so much better. I am just so lucky that someone I have not even met cares enough to cheer me up.)
 

MikeyC

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Mmm yea I think I will too! lol I'm thinking of finding temporary tattoos and trying the tattoos I want that way ;D
Temporary tattoos are a good way to go. Keep them on for a day or two and see if you still like it. What designs do you have in mind?

I am a bit tired...bedtime soon. (I had been feeling awful earlier. But after talking with someone I feel so much better. I am just so lucky that someone I have not even met cares enough to cheer me up.)
I'm glad someone has made you feel better, Rose. :) It does make all the difference when someone can do that. A mate of mine did that for me today without really realising it and it's awesome.

I know it wasn't me that you were talking to, but I'm here if you need me. :)
 

MikeyC

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Yay! I hope it lasts and lasts! I wanna know what has you feeling better. Please share! :)
It was really nothing special. Me and a mate of mine (my vocalist in my band) went out to a movie, then out to lunch. It wasn't much, but he made me laugh legitimately and I actually enjoyed myself. I told him just before we left that I am going through some crippling depression and he has cheered me up. Hopefully this lasts. :)

So that's my secret...which isn't really much of one. :D
 

razzle dazzle rose

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I'm glad someone has made you feel better, Rose. :) It does make all the difference when someone can do that. A mate of mine did that for me today without really realising it and it's awesome.

I know it wasn't me that you were talking to, but I'm here if you need me. :)

It really does make all the difference. Sometimes all you need is a hug. But since a hug wasn't possible, just having someone who listens, and distracts you, helps a ton. Your posts always make me smile :) I am here if you ever need me, don't hesitate one bit, just message me already, lol.
 

razzle dazzle rose

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It was really nothing special. Me and a mate of mine (my vocalist in my band) went out to a movie, then out to lunch. It wasn't much, but he made me laugh legitimately and I actually enjoyed myself. I told him just before we left that I am going through some crippling depression and he has cheered me up. Hopefully this lasts. :)

So that's my secret...which isn't really much of one. :D

Going out, being with someone funny, it is good times. I can see how that has you feeling upbeat :) I always feel so good after going out as well. We need to do more outings like that!
 

razzle dazzle rose

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Get your lip pierced! It's easily reversed if you decide you dislike it. As for the tattoo, put a bit more thought in that one. It's a permanent inking on your body so make sure you're 100% happy with your decision.

I will likely never get a tattoo because I'm simply way too indecisive.

I would suggest the same! I got a tattoo like um, five years ago? I don't really like it anymore. I always wanted to get more too, so I am glad I didn't. In a couple years I am sure I will want it removed. This tattoo only cost me fifty bucks, but it will cost me thousands to remove it. Ahhh. Tattoos are cool though, and I like them, just not on myself after all.
 

MikeyC

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It really does make all the difference. Sometimes all you need is a hug. But since a hug wasn't possible, just having someone who listens, and distracts you, helps a ton. Your posts always make me smile :) I am here if you ever need me, don't hesitate one bit, just message me already, lol.
Yeah, exactly. I'm glad I can make people smile here. My effort is paying off. :)

Going out, being with someone funny, it is good times. I can see how that has you feeling upbeat :) I always feel so good after going out as well. We need to do more outings like that!
It's weird, though: I was not enjoying my outings for the last couple of weeks as all I wanted to do was crawl into a hole and not talk to anyone. But today something clicked and I had fun. Actual fun. And it didn't involve alcohol or nightclubs or trying to get female attention (as my friends always try) - it was a simple movie and lunch. I liked it.

I'm glad you also feel upbeat after going out and having a good time. It does make a difference, even if only for a day. :)
 

MikeyC

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I would suggest the same! I got a tattoo like um, five years ago? I don't really like it anymore. I always wanted to get more too, so I am glad I didn't. In a couple years I am sure I will want it removed. This tattoo only cost me fifty bucks, but it will cost me thousands to remove it. Ahhh. Tattoos are cool though, and I like them, just not on myself after all.
What tattoo did you get? It's unfortunate you don't like it now but it's hard to say where we'll be in 5 years time. I mean, I'm 25 and if I got one today, would I like it in 5 years, when I'm 30? 30! I could be anything then.

It will cost a lot to remove it, but if you truly don't like it, maybe it'll be worth the investment?
 

razzle dazzle rose

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Yeah, exactly. I'm glad I can make people smile here. My effort is paying off. :)

*hugs* you are so cool!

It's weird, though: I was not enjoying my outings for the last couple of weeks as all I wanted to do was crawl into a hole and not talk to anyone. But today something clicked and I had fun. Actual fun. And it didn't involve alcohol or nightclubs or trying to get female attention (as my friends always try) - it was a simple movie and lunch. I liked it.

Clubs are so stressful. Especially when trying to get attention from the opposite sex. It reminds me of that one song by The Smiths. If you listen to them, you know which one. Those types of outings are draining for me. Maybe for you too?

What tattoo did you get? It's unfortunate you don't like it now but it's hard to say where we'll be in 5 years time. I mean, I'm 25 and if I got one today, would I like it in 5 years, when I'm 30? 30! I could be anything then.

It will cost a lot to remove it, but if you truly don't like it, maybe it'll be worth the investment?

I got some words. I am a big fan of words. But yeah, in just five years I got bored of it. It was an impulsive thing I did, although I had been wanting to get a tattoo. I don't have the money to remove it now, but when I do, I will for sure. No doubt about that.
 

MikeyC

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*hugs* you are so cool!
Aww. ::eek::



Clubs are so stressful. Especially when trying to get attention from the opposite sex. It reminds me of that one song by The Smiths. If you listen to them, you know which one. Those types of outings are draining for me. Maybe for you too?
When out at a nightclub, I'm never trying to get any females' attention, but my friends insist I talk to this girl or go up to that girl and it's always such an anxious move. They can do it so easily and wonder why it's so difficult for me. I can imagine it would be the same for you? It is a little draining, and I don't go to nightclubs that often, anyway. I always enjoy the experience less than what I imagined.



I got some words. I am a big fan of words. But yeah, in just five years I got bored of it. It was an impulsive thing I did, although I had been wanting to get a tattoo. I don't have the money to remove it now, but when I do, I will for sure. No doubt about that.
Impulse tattoo. Yikes. At least you got a little bit of enjoyment out of it. And hey, if you don't have money for the removing of it...cheese grater?

Actually, that hurts just thinking about it. D:
 

Kiwong

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The world keep throwing suprises at me, and I often feel like a failure in how I deal with them. These situations hit me in the guts and hurt.

I really miss my father, because of his consistency, he was always the same, supportive and on my side. The complicated nature of people makes me unwell at times, there is such uncertainty and fear in how I relate to the world. Often I feel so on my own, and the world is a hostile place, with very few people on my side.
 

KiaKaha

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The world keep throwing suprises at me, and I often feel like a failure in how I deal with them. These situations hit me in the guts and hurt.

I really miss my father, because of his consistency, he was always the same, supportive and on my side. The complicated nature of people makes me unwell at times, there is such uncertainty and fear in how I relate to the world. Often I feel so on my own, and the world is a hostile place, with very few people on my side.

I am on your side Kiwong, I always enjoy reading your posts. I am glad you are a consistent part of the forum... I can remember that you were one of the people who welcomed me back after a break, and that meant a lot to me :)
 

Kiwong

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I am on your side Kiwong, I always enjoy reading your posts. I am glad you are a consistent part of the forum... I can remember that you were one of the people who welcomed me back after a break, and that meant a lot to me :)

Cheers mate, thanks for that. I remember you were having a very hard time then and disappeared for a while.

I have to say I am impressed with some of the good work you do with the homeless and also setting up a social anxiety group. You're one of the good guys.
 

this_portrait

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I just realized why I feel kinda empty; I had another dream I didn't want to have last night. Hate when that happens.

I guess I don't feel as bad as I normally would after one of those dreams. Maybe it's because I almost forgot about it once I woke up.
 

twiggle

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Like I'm not going to let anyone buy my affection. I'm annoyed that he's manipulating me like this. It's not fair.

Edit: And don't throw up a tantrum when I refuse your 'present'. Sorry for ruining your plan, bucko. Grr!

(Sorry for using this thread to rant again but I don't feel like burdening anyone else with it)
 
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MrJones

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I feel like I'm a pain in everyone else's neck, a pest. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but that would explain a lot :/

cold. very cold. even with 2 sweaters on, I'm still c-cold!! AHH!
47 blankets (if needed), hot soup and...
Penny and Sheldon Singing "Soft Kitty" - YouTube
Hope you feel better soon ::p:
Like I'm not going to let anyone buy my affection. I'm annoyed that he's manipulating me like this. It's not fair.
I can't stand people that do such things... I think you would do a favour to yourself if you stay away from those kind of people.
 
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