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hi, you say when u speak to him u forget about u social phobia?
social phobia is yout demon, if u choose to let it become u it will, obv ur so into the convo, u forget about it, when u forget, the real u comes out, you are the charasmatic person, funny. the social phobia is a habbit you've picked up, something to avoid maybe a bad situation if it occurs.
the point im trying to make (im a psychology student btw) is that when u imagin meeting the person, ur painting a negative picture, which then makes your social phobia flare up! its all habbit. remember, your a person, not a disorder, people arent as cold as that either, if u are abit shy, its ok!!! ull be normal! i think people who are over confident are scary if anything, he will probs be shy an all! so just go with the flow, dont try and predict the situation, dont try and see everything happening step by step, 9/10 ur wrong! lifes random init, also, if u go into anything negative, u sped it around, if u go optimistic, and make everything around u optamistic. hope this helped!!! xxxxxxx
social phobia is yout demon, if u choose to let it become u it will, obv ur so into the convo, u forget about it, when u forget, the real u comes out, you are the charasmatic person, funny. the social phobia is a habbit you've picked up, something to avoid maybe a bad situation if it occurs.
the point im trying to make (im a psychology student btw) is that when u imagin meeting the person, ur painting a negative picture, which then makes your social phobia flare up! its all habbit. remember, your a person, not a disorder, people arent as cold as that either, if u are abit shy, its ok!!! ull be normal! i think people who are over confident are scary if anything, he will probs be shy an all! so just go with the flow, dont try and predict the situation, dont try and see everything happening step by step, 9/10 ur wrong! lifes random init, also, if u go into anything negative, u sped it around, if u go optimistic, and make everything around u optamistic. hope this helped!!! xxxxxxx