ive gone thru the same thing! lmao it was my EXbest friends uncle no1 could beleive it when they found out! and she told me once when i told her i rlly liked her EX ALOT (n he liked me) she said well u better stop liken him real quick. and when u rlly like som1,, u cant. but her uncle went 2 jail so mabye it was 4 the best lol n by the way, how much older we talkin?