Help, its really sad

[Emma]

:?

 

[Thelema]

Without annoying him? If he's annoyed by you then he isn't worth any tears. I remember a saying that went something like...when you find a man worth crying for he will never make you cry.

If you need closure call him...then say good riddens you worthless pile of crap....you treat me like shit and I will NEVER think about you again...I've given you all I can and you spit it back in my face...I hope you die you fucking dog.

 

[Emma]

I know that would be the logical thing to do....but forget logic, I'm thinking with my heart not my head, and my heart tells me I still love him, and maybe by some remote chance he might actually care about me, I don't have the guts to be one of those people who tracks him down at the airport and says I love him in front of everyone, this could be my last chance, so forget if he was a jerk, if he doesn't care at all why does he keep coming back to speak to me?

 

[Thelema]

I'm going to sound like an ass now....HE DOESN'T FUCKING CARE ABOUT YOU!!!IF HE LOVES YOU THEN HE WOULDN'T TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT!!! HE TALKS TO YOU WHEN THE OTHER GIRL HE'S HAVING SEX WITH ISN'T AROUND SO HE CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!! HE KNOWS HE CAN TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT AND YOU'LL ALWAYS BE THERE TO BE TREATED LIKE SHIT!!!!FUCKIN STAND UP FOR YOURSELF! SHOW SOME BACK BONE AND GET THIS WORTHLESS DOG OUT OF YOUR LIFE FOR GOOD! I GUARANTEE YOU THAT YOU WILL FEEL MUCH BETTER IF YOU GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF HIM LEAVING YOU! TAKE THE WIND OUT OF HIS SAILS AND END IT RIGHT NOW FOR GOOD!!! CALL HIS WORTHLESS ASS RIGHT NOW AND TELL HIM WHAT I SAID AND NEVER THINK OF HIM AGAIN! CLOSE THE BAD CHAPTER ON YOUR LIFE!

 

[plainsofserenity]

in a few weeks

So you have time to think.

(Is this the same guy you went out with on NewYear's?)

 

[Emma]

You're right, I just got a bit upset, since I've calmed down I'm going to delete what I wrote and forget him and move on, I won't even give him the time of day to mention him ever again 8O

 

[Thelema]

You're right, I just got a bit upset, since I've calmed down I'm going to delete what I wrote and forget him and move on, I won't even give him the time of day to mention him ever again 8O

Emma my dear...does he make you feel good?

 

[Emma]

Emma my dear...does he make you feel good?

Yes he does, when he's sitting right in front of me, that is, otherwise I wouldn't be sitting here pining over him like some lovesick loser.
When we're together it's fine, he's really nice to me and always takes my hand and stuff, plus he's kind of softly spoken too, so he even sounds nice.
And he asks lots of questions like he's interested in my life.

But having said that, he's sort of like a totally different person on msn, like it's not him, I really don't understand why.....I asked him if he wanted to come to my birthday party next month and he was going to come, but then when I told him when it was he said he would be gone by then and got really bitchy....So I need a guys opinion on this.....why is he so nice to my face and acting really interested, the way he used to (even though he's well aware I won't sleep with him just because he wants me to) and mean to me on msn? If he does not care at all why does he still talk to me and why does he ask to see me sometimes? And he said ages ago when we broke up that he would want to get back together in a few months when I sorted my social phobia thing out...So how can I kind of ask him out without him feeling like I'm pushing him into it or being demanding?

 

[Thelema]

My point is he doesn't make you feel good. He only hurts you. You just feel so much about him your blinded by it.

I don't know why he would act two different ways in person and msn but I act different ways but I really can't give you an explanation.

Emma you need to read the writing on the wall. If he was in love with you would he tell you to wait a few months? He was just trying to let you down easy.

He probably wants to see you when you are all he can get at that time. Would he leave another girl for you?

I know what you're feeling. I've felt it too. But it just is going to end up giving you more hurt.

Kick him to the curb and find somebody that does love you.

 

[Smudgo]

Listem emma, i understand how guys minds work and i think he is just using you. He seems like he only wants to be friendly when he feels like it and he would never go out his way to go to special stuff for you like his b/day party etc.

He is not a genuine person, all he is causing you is lots of pain and the only way to get over it is to accept the fact that getting together is NOT a possiblity. yes its hurtful but its much better in the long run.

Hes nto a nice guy find someone who loves you and it will be much better . You are a really sweet girl and i know lots of guys out there will want to spend time with you

 

[witchblade]

Hi emma

What comes to mind when I read this, is that people treat you the way you teach/let them t treat you. Deep down you know what kind of man this guy is. He sounds like a manipulative loser who is stringing you along. Some guys will do "just barely enough" to keep you hoping for a closer relationship. He probably thinks in his egotistical mind that he will eventually be able to "get some." You do not want to be a BOOTY CALL. You deserve better girl.

Reading recomendation: He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt

GregBtv.com

 

[Emma]

Reading recomendation: He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt

You won't believe this, but I just went out and got that book yesterday 8O