hi formie..welcome!! Just remember that we tend to be our own worst critics, so perhaps your appearance isn't as bad as you think :wink: ..and also, in my opinion..i'd rather have a really nice, humble, kind, sweet, honest man, who is not all that good looking, than a really 'great looking' man..who's a jerk 8)formie said:hi im new to this site, i suffer from lack of confidence due to my appearance. has any one got any ides on how i can improve my confidence in chatting to women