melancauly
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Hello everybody :)
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Butterflies
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Thank you for sharing. I also was a "luker' on the forum for sometime. I too hid my "secret" for many years.
One thing to think about if you can ... when I read your post you sound like a "Highly Senstive Person". This is not a negative term but a positive term. The term refers to a special trait.
Do a search on "Highly Senstive Person" and do a questionnaire (if you haven't already). If it works out that you are, it would be worth you looking into further.
The book "The Highly Senstive Person" helped me understand myself sooo much. It made me see my qualities in a positive light and had some great info on relationships, dating, falling in and out of love quickly, how to balance being "in" and "out". HSP's are artistic and moved my the arts, they hate crowds, fall in love heavily and many things specific to the trait.
Let me know how you go. I'd be interested to know.
One thing to think about if you can ... when I read your post you sound like a "Highly Senstive Person". This is not a negative term but a positive term. The term refers to a special trait.
Do a search on "Highly Senstive Person" and do a questionnaire (if you haven't already). If it works out that you are, it would be worth you looking into further.
The book "The Highly Senstive Person" helped me understand myself sooo much. It made me see my qualities in a positive light and had some great info on relationships, dating, falling in and out of love quickly, how to balance being "in" and "out". HSP's are artistic and moved my the arts, they hate crowds, fall in love heavily and many things specific to the trait.
Let me know how you go. I'd be interested to know.
melancauly
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Thank you for that advice. I took a test on hsperson.com and out of 27 questions 22 applied to me, so I am a highly sensitive person. It's something I didn't know, but it's always good to find out new things about yourself. 
Butterflies
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melancauly said:Thank you for that advice. I took a test on hsperson.com and out of 27 questions 22 applied to me, so I am a highly sensitive person. It's something I didn't know, but it's always good to find out new things about yourself.
That is good news. If you can afford the book it is worth purchasing. It takes you through an amazing journey of self-discovery, acceptance and understanding.
There are things you can do TODAY to start turning your life around.