Guys- Do you find foreign women easier to talk to?

[Toomuchfear]

Hi.
I understand that having SA makes talking to women rather tricky, and I find trying to talk to English British women exceptionally hard. They've got their heels and shades on, and they read Heat magazine, and I feel they look down on me as they never smile or look at me if I am to walk past them. I work in a shop and as customers, they never seem to want to talk. They want to marry muscled footballers, they like going out on the lash and love celebrities/essex and all that stuff.

Now on the other hand, I find foreign women, no matter how pretty they are, much more friendly, approachable and chatty. They actually want to make conversation and take an interest in me. For someone who has SA and finds social interactions really tricky, and wouldn't mind a girlfriend, this makes life so much easier.

Do other guys find this or is it just me?

 

[hoddesdon]

Hi.
They want to marry muscled footballers, they like going out on the lash and love celebrities/essex and all that stuff.

They love Essex? Perhaps you should move there. Hoddesdon is right on the border with Essex, so maybe it would be (almost) just as good.

 

[deleted user 1]

The strange thing is that I have never been intimidated by women in that regard. My AvPD is across the board, but I do feel better conversing with women. Probably because I think most guys are thick and one dimensional. Trying to get them to conceive of layered conversation is like trying to squeeze an elephant into a thimble! But that aside.

Something I will say about en vogue British women, they are absorbed into the celeb culture. Everything that is trashy, raw and generally repugnant. Not to mention exceptionally easy. You do not want one of them. There are many beautiful, mindful, talented and exciting (not cheap) women on the outskirts of these trashy ideals.

Being a foreigner numerous times in various countries throughout my childhood, I observed that different cultures will generally find each other exciting and different. You will be something new and of interest, more so than to your native denizens. This is potentially an advantageous situation. But I do stress generally.