iamantisocial
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"I'm already (*insert age here you think is too old*) and I dont have a girlfriend yet!!!"
"Its college//highschool... and omg everyone has friends and shit and they make me so fuckin jealous!!!"
"I wish I was... (*insert body modification here*) and it would be alot better..."
"I dont have any friends and I am missing out on life and I spend friday nights alone in front of my computer. I'm a loser!!!"
Sounds familiar? These are some of the few things Ive read in this forum that are pretty common. These things have a common denominator which is the desire to seek approval and acceptance. Which is the desire to love and be loved.
Why? Why do we have this disease that is not productive at all... Why do we need to continuously seek approval and all... which I swear without this behavior, we would all be fine. We would all be fine if we simply didnt care about getting laid, getting friends, getting this, getting that...
Look at the spiders who just live in their little web or little hole on the ground. Do you hear them getting depressed and killing themselves with their venomous bite that can instantly kill or maim another insect or slightly larger bird or mammal? NO.
If only there is a possible way to modify a human's genes in such a way that they will no longer desire social contact and another's approval... that would be great!
In another thread, somebody mentioned the effect of living in urbanized industrialized society where one has to make contact with all sorts of people... or somethin like that... and comparing it to living in small hunting and gathering societies where a sense of community and family is prevalent. Where there exists LOVE... COMPASSION... CARE for the well-being of members within the little community.
So in other words, to live in a modern society, we must "DONT GIVE A FUCK"? Is that the final solution and the philosophy that will keep the person functioning?
I've got parents who are worried about my change in behavior to a more "dont give a fuck" kind. These are asians who came from a culture of close ties... and they dont understand why their son is adapting that kind of mindset... I'm doin it to ensure my emotional survival in the future because it is absolutely necessary. They dont understand that. They live... and they will die in their little world where there is still LOVE, CARE, and UNDERSTANDING.
To them, it is their worst nightmare to be shipped off to a nursing home during old age. They expect their kids to take care of them and they still believe that there is a God who will reward the kids for taking good care of them.
I doubt it. Though I will still take care of my parents in old age... even though they were mean assholes... just to prove my fucking point. That one day, I am gonna be by myself and I will die alone. I will disappear from the face of this earth... ALONE. And yes that still bothers me and makes me cry sometimes... tho Im training myself.... I'm toughening up my mind to NOT GIVE A FUCK. I wanna be like... Oh well... I'm a fuckin old man... I'm gonna die sooner or later... Pfft... I dont give a fuck. lol.
"Its college//highschool... and omg everyone has friends and shit and they make me so fuckin jealous!!!"
"I wish I was... (*insert body modification here*) and it would be alot better..."
"I dont have any friends and I am missing out on life and I spend friday nights alone in front of my computer. I'm a loser!!!"
Sounds familiar? These are some of the few things Ive read in this forum that are pretty common. These things have a common denominator which is the desire to seek approval and acceptance. Which is the desire to love and be loved.
Why? Why do we have this disease that is not productive at all... Why do we need to continuously seek approval and all... which I swear without this behavior, we would all be fine. We would all be fine if we simply didnt care about getting laid, getting friends, getting this, getting that...
Look at the spiders who just live in their little web or little hole on the ground. Do you hear them getting depressed and killing themselves with their venomous bite that can instantly kill or maim another insect or slightly larger bird or mammal? NO.
If only there is a possible way to modify a human's genes in such a way that they will no longer desire social contact and another's approval... that would be great!
In another thread, somebody mentioned the effect of living in urbanized industrialized society where one has to make contact with all sorts of people... or somethin like that... and comparing it to living in small hunting and gathering societies where a sense of community and family is prevalent. Where there exists LOVE... COMPASSION... CARE for the well-being of members within the little community.
So in other words, to live in a modern society, we must "DONT GIVE A FUCK"? Is that the final solution and the philosophy that will keep the person functioning?
I've got parents who are worried about my change in behavior to a more "dont give a fuck" kind. These are asians who came from a culture of close ties... and they dont understand why their son is adapting that kind of mindset... I'm doin it to ensure my emotional survival in the future because it is absolutely necessary. They dont understand that. They live... and they will die in their little world where there is still LOVE, CARE, and UNDERSTANDING.
To them, it is their worst nightmare to be shipped off to a nursing home during old age. They expect their kids to take care of them and they still believe that there is a God who will reward the kids for taking good care of them.
I doubt it. Though I will still take care of my parents in old age... even though they were mean assholes... just to prove my fucking point. That one day, I am gonna be by myself and I will die alone. I will disappear from the face of this earth... ALONE. And yes that still bothers me and makes me cry sometimes... tho Im training myself.... I'm toughening up my mind to NOT GIVE A FUCK. I wanna be like... Oh well... I'm a fuckin old man... I'm gonna die sooner or later... Pfft... I dont give a fuck. lol.