yeahyeahyeah
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I avoid arguing and confrontation 99% of the time , only down side is i let people walk over me for fear of stirring something up . Alot of times something is said or done that irks me and i'll let it slide telling myself " don't bother defending yourself or calling them on their BS cause it could turn ugly "
Well long story short someone blamed me for something i did'nt do, right in my face ( guy @ work ) and i freaking lost it , i found myself yelling at him and feeling great at the same time for doing it . it's like you can only go to a point till you blow up i guess . he ended up saying sorry and backing down .
I felt great since this happened about confronting people ,, getting a sharp tongue when people make stupid rude comments and seeing them change their manners makes me feel good !
Like most on this forum i have a problem with eye contact and i think this sends the signal to the other person confronting you that they are intimidating you and they are in charge .
I hope this post makes some sense , i had a few beer before writing it ,, great forum btw - alot of these topics and posts are like you are reading my mind good to see i'am not along with this crap .
Well long story short someone blamed me for something i did'nt do, right in my face ( guy @ work ) and i freaking lost it , i found myself yelling at him and feeling great at the same time for doing it . it's like you can only go to a point till you blow up i guess . he ended up saying sorry and backing down .
I felt great since this happened about confronting people ,, getting a sharp tongue when people make stupid rude comments and seeing them change their manners makes me feel good !
Like most on this forum i have a problem with eye contact and i think this sends the signal to the other person confronting you that they are intimidating you and they are in charge .
I hope this post makes some sense , i had a few beer before writing it ,, great forum btw - alot of these topics and posts are like you are reading my mind good to see i'am not along with this crap .