Iseesky
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I have kept many of the same friends since elementary school. I'm in high school now, grade 11. One friend however, the one I considered my 'best' friend, is becoming harder to understand. We would do everything together in elementary school (when I barely had SA)...I'd invite her to our cabin, the beach, the movies, shopping, vacations, amusement parks...etc. All of the normal stuff kids do.
The thing is, she never invited me anywhere! I barely went to her house at all unless it was a birthday party. She didn't call be, but communicated through e-mails. Now I understand that she probably has social anxiety, like what I have now, and I'm fine with that now.
The thing is, we still talk now in high school, but she doesn't tell me anything. She was talking about being hungover, and I didn't even know she drinks. Actually, it sort of shocked me to hear it because she's not the type to. I didn't think she was anyways. Apparently she goes to random parties with older kids she doesn't know. I know with SA I would NEVER even attempt to do this! I've noticed that since she's gone to these parties she's been talking to many more people. Ones who are quite the partiers and the ones who are very loud. You would think she's a very confidence person, but still she never calls, and we still only talk over MSN or emails or at school and I'm still the one who has to initiate activities. I don't get it. :roll: Anyone know what might be up with her? What has alcohol done for you? It seems like at school in front of the people she drinks with she's confident. Yet, around me and the people who haven't seen her drink she's still anxious and nervous.
The thing is, she never invited me anywhere! I barely went to her house at all unless it was a birthday party. She didn't call be, but communicated through e-mails. Now I understand that she probably has social anxiety, like what I have now, and I'm fine with that now.
The thing is, we still talk now in high school, but she doesn't tell me anything. She was talking about being hungover, and I didn't even know she drinks. Actually, it sort of shocked me to hear it because she's not the type to. I didn't think she was anyways. Apparently she goes to random parties with older kids she doesn't know. I know with SA I would NEVER even attempt to do this! I've noticed that since she's gone to these parties she's been talking to many more people. Ones who are quite the partiers and the ones who are very loud. You would think she's a very confidence person, but still she never calls, and we still only talk over MSN or emails or at school and I'm still the one who has to initiate activities. I don't get it. :roll: Anyone know what might be up with her? What has alcohol done for you? It seems like at school in front of the people she drinks with she's confident. Yet, around me and the people who haven't seen her drink she's still anxious and nervous.
