Blushing

[rado31]

Hey all,

I just wanted to say that i love to see blushed cheeks on a girls face.
I always loved it..And i believe that i m not the only one. I dont know how it can be such a problem for them. Some women even put make up on cheek to look like that, remember.

understand that heat that u feel on the face, can be annoying .
Yesterday on tv i saw some woman that leads some antistress program, she was completely blushed but very confident, it seemes that everyone doesnt experience this problem same way.

 

[Tryin]

yeah, true, maybe we sometimes experience something as a problem... and in fact it is not a problem at all. it's all about confidence and feeling comfortable. but how to get confident, that's the question.

 

[prince1]

I think ur getting confused with blushed and flushed. Blushing is caused from mild to extreme anxiety. Flushing happends randomly. So you cant blush and be confident but can be flushed and confident as it has no connection with it.
Example: Blushed- Someone is called on in class and they feel extreme anxiety which causes them to blush from the lack of confidence in the situation.
Flushed- Someone may be just walking down the street, talking etc with no fear adrenline or anxiety and get flushed.
They both generally look the same but im sure its inpossible to eb blushed if ur confident.

 

[Dreamer_15]

i dont mind it when people blush either, and it makes me feel more comfortable too because its pretty embarassing sometimes when your talking to someone then you suddenly go bright red lol. i dont have a problem with blushing i dont think...not when i get nervous anyway...like the only really time i blush is when someone says im pretty or something lol how lame is that :lol:

 

[Pitrus]

IT ruins my fucking life so i hate it. Its the biggest problem bigger then Hyperhydrosis for me but u kno whats even worse flushing. I could live with Blushing and HH but Flushing God damn it.
If someone is gone ask me whats wrong with me ima have to make a whole damn list for them.

 

[_sarah_]

IT ruins my fucking life so i hate it.

Dito!

rado31 - its fine that you like it, but how do you think as a woman i feel blushing in a corporate setting, or in the supermarket cue, or when a work mate asks me a slightly person question, etc etc

Its not the heat on my face thats annoying... its the fact im going BRIGHT RED

I can understand in a flirting way this may be seen as a positive but i can assure in many other situations ppl look down on you for getting so easy embarrassed. As a woman hoping to get into management i can see this being my biggest obstacle.

anyway ive given up trying to change it ... so i guess i should stop talking about it

 

[prince1]

IT ruins my fucking life so i hate it.

Dito!

rado31 - its fine that you like it, but how do you think as a woman i feel blushing in a corporate setting, or in the supermarket cue, or when a work mate asks me a slightly person question, etc etc

Its not the heat on my face thats annoying... its the fact im going BRIGHT RED

I can understand in a flirting way this may be seen as a positive but i can assure in many other situations ppl look down on you for getting so easy embarrassed. As a woman hoping to get into management i can see this being my biggest obstacle.

anyway ive given up trying to change it ... so i guess i should stop talking about it

Im male and i feel the same, i hate going red, i would rather die sometimes. But hey have u tried paxil before. Ive been on it 3 weeks and i still feell very anixous, but my blushing has reduced a near 75%.

 

[thequietone]

Blushing is so terrible. Yes, I've heard that some guys find it attractive, but to someone with Avoidant personality disorder or SP, that makes it even worse! It draws attention to us. Attention is flattering, it can even make me feel good about myself, but I still hate blushing.
The other day this guy started talking to me out of the blue and I was blushing and sweating like mad, hardly able to form a coherent sentence! It's humiliating. We all want to be cool, calm and collected, but it's not that easy.