Am I only shy or more ?

[COALPORTER]

I would really like to find a nice woman to spend the rest of my life with.
But i'm soo quiet that it either scares them or they think im wierd,
(I know not to stare at woman in public and not say something...this gives them a total panic attack). Im afraid too really try, because my behavor will only scare them)
:evil:

When I see an atractive woman and feel like going up to her and starting a conversation, all I can think of is "Hi" and "Nice Tits".

( Actually, sometimes this almost works) but I feel so inadaquate and incapable and angree with my self because I really honestly can't think of anything else to say. My mind is a total blank. I'm this way around family too, so its not that im nervious around women .

I'm college enducated and have a good career etc, but I a total loner.

Any ideas on how I can expand (that is have some at all) my converstion skills?? :?: :?:

 

[mikey725]

Talk to them like you talk to your guy friends.

don't say "nice tits" if you were serious about that, it just scares them

just get to know them

 

[lacnail]

It sounds a bit like SA. I mean if it were only shyness, you might be a bit nervous to approach or to start talking. But if you find it impossible to open up to a woman or let conversation flow, it might be something more..

www.howtobecooler.com might be a good site for you

 

[prince1]

Sounds alot like SA as the anxiety blocks your mind from thinking properly. Its like a invisible barrier in ur head Happens to me a hell of alot. The only things i can say to girls is 'Hey' or just laugh at everything they say.

 

[rado31]

haha , your post made me laugh