Adam

amf

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Hi,

My fear of people manifests itself as verbal abusing others and attacking their week points in order for them distance themselves from me. Not a formula for popularity. And I do it subconsciously at places where social mingling is supposed to be drama-free (don't have this problem at work or out in public).

And now, I get some perverse/entertainment from such activities. Surely, I'm not the only one. Any links to threads with a similar topic?

And yes, solitude is the end result from this long time "hobby" of mine.


Adam
 
Hi Adam, welcome to SPW!

A long while ago I noticed that my family members would make sport of putting each other down. I had noticed that I was doing it too. But this "good-natured" ribbing is very harmful. I try hard not to do it anymore. I'm learning to be non-judgmental towards myself and others, but the human mind is a comparison machine.

:p
 
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