IceLad
Well-known member
Hello everyone,
You may recall that I wanted some advice a good few weeks ago now, regarding whether to post a letter to a girl I see at rugby matches who maintains a good amount of eye contact at me. (Subject- Is this socially acceptable or just mad?) Thanks to everyone who replied.
Well the letter was posted and I wish I could say things have moved on, but they haven't. Since the letter was posted, nothing has changed. She still maintains a good amount of eye contact taking one last look at me the end of the match, but I'm 90% sure she got the letter. Why hasn't she responded? Is this just taking the p**s or just playing a game?
Now this is where things get really muddled! During half time at the first match after I posted the letter, some girl couldn't keep their eyes off me and put both their hands to their chest as if pointed at themselves to me. I didn't recognise them and just stared back at them (It was cold weather and whoever it was, had a hat on).
A couple of days later I clicked that it was probably this girl (I'm not usually this slow!). At the next match, as soon as I looked at her she looked away, but now we're back on regular eye contact. She still always checks to see whether I've turned up.
Anyway, after yesterday's match I finally saw her outside the ground. As I walked past her she maintained one longish gaze. As I looked back to her for the second time, someone had come up to her and she looked away and started talking to them. I totally lost my bottle and waited down the road for a good few minutes for her to come past, but she never did.
So everyone, try and unravel this 'mess' for me. Where do you think I stand? Is this situation worth pursuing? If someone gave you a letter with their name, number and address on it, surely you wouldn't respond by effectively pointed at yourself to this person at quite a distance (this bit has been playing on my mind quite badly)?
Any comments or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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You may recall that I wanted some advice a good few weeks ago now, regarding whether to post a letter to a girl I see at rugby matches who maintains a good amount of eye contact at me. (Subject- Is this socially acceptable or just mad?) Thanks to everyone who replied.
Well the letter was posted and I wish I could say things have moved on, but they haven't. Since the letter was posted, nothing has changed. She still maintains a good amount of eye contact taking one last look at me the end of the match, but I'm 90% sure she got the letter. Why hasn't she responded? Is this just taking the p**s or just playing a game?
Now this is where things get really muddled! During half time at the first match after I posted the letter, some girl couldn't keep their eyes off me and put both their hands to their chest as if pointed at themselves to me. I didn't recognise them and just stared back at them (It was cold weather and whoever it was, had a hat on).
A couple of days later I clicked that it was probably this girl (I'm not usually this slow!). At the next match, as soon as I looked at her she looked away, but now we're back on regular eye contact. She still always checks to see whether I've turned up.
Anyway, after yesterday's match I finally saw her outside the ground. As I walked past her she maintained one longish gaze. As I looked back to her for the second time, someone had come up to her and she looked away and started talking to them. I totally lost my bottle and waited down the road for a good few minutes for her to come past, but she never did.
So everyone, try and unravel this 'mess' for me. Where do you think I stand? Is this situation worth pursuing? If someone gave you a letter with their name, number and address on it, surely you wouldn't respond by effectively pointed at yourself to this person at quite a distance (this bit has been playing on my mind quite badly)?
Any comments or advice would be greatly appreciated.
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