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EveM
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zeroday said:
The thing is I've given her a chance before but, I dunno, she just gives me reasons not to trust her. But I've got to the point now when I'm not sure whether the SA is making me choose or believe certain things or whether it's reason. I really hate myself right now
Primrose
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Don't hate yourself, you have very good reasons not to trust her.
She's not a particularly good person to be around if she's running off sharing your private discussions.
I do think there are people out there who need to be with others they can boss around. They're the same kind of people who beg you to come out to a club with them and then leave you sitting by yourself all night long. The kind of people who plan trips based around their own wants and needs and not those of the company they keep.
Friendship of anykind is a two-way street, it's all about sharing and discovering together - it shouldn't always be about one person. That's probably the reason you've not felt motivated to get in touch with her - I don't blame you at all.
She's not a particularly good person to be around if she's running off sharing your private discussions.
I do think there are people out there who need to be with others they can boss around. They're the same kind of people who beg you to come out to a club with them and then leave you sitting by yourself all night long. The kind of people who plan trips based around their own wants and needs and not those of the company they keep.
Friendship of anykind is a two-way street, it's all about sharing and discovering together - it shouldn't always be about one person. That's probably the reason you've not felt motivated to get in touch with her - I don't blame you at all.
Butterflies
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EveM - if you don't really like her then forget about her. Who needs a friend like that?
If she truly has betrayed your trust then she's not a friend and not worth having as a friend.
If you don't really want to see her - then don't. You don't owe her anything.
Friends should support, be loyal and give to each other. If she does none of that why waste your energy.
Best use your SP energy on someone worthwhile.
That's my opinion anyway.
If she truly has betrayed your trust then she's not a friend and not worth having as a friend.
If you don't really want to see her - then don't. You don't owe her anything.
Friends should support, be loyal and give to each other. If she does none of that why waste your energy.
Best use your SP energy on someone worthwhile.
That's my opinion anyway.