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haze
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completely sadly the chances of this are very unlikely when neither of you venture outside the house and even if this does happen (which is VERY unlikely) both of you having SA doesnt automaticly make it some kind of lifelong relationship. i also find shyness attractive (among a lot of other strange things)
SocialRetahd
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Someone mentioned nolongerloney.com or something. You are bound to find one there.
Lonelyheart
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Re: I want a girlfriend with social anxiety
Yes, I LOVE shy girls. Not only do I like their personalities better, but they also appear more physically attractive to me than outgoing girls.
There is nothing better than a sweet, petite, shy, soft-spoken, adorable, sensitive lady.
Unfortunately, most shy ladies are preyed on and taken by aggressive players. I would be willing to ask a shy girl out, however, it would take me at least a month of casual conversation to feel comfortable asking. Aggressive players will swoop down on an attractive shy girl, like an eagle swoops down on its prey, in a matter of seconds. Because of this phenomenon and many other factors, I think it will be very difficult for us social phobic men to even establish relationships with shy girls.
Njodis said:
Yes, I LOVE shy girls. Not only do I like their personalities better, but they also appear more physically attractive to me than outgoing girls.
There is nothing better than a sweet, petite, shy, soft-spoken, adorable, sensitive lady.
Unfortunately, most shy ladies are preyed on and taken by aggressive players. I would be willing to ask a shy girl out, however, it would take me at least a month of casual conversation to feel comfortable asking. Aggressive players will swoop down on an attractive shy girl, like an eagle swoops down on its prey, in a matter of seconds. Because of this phenomenon and many other factors, I think it will be very difficult for us social phobic men to even establish relationships with shy girls.
GuardianKnight
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Re: I want a girlfriend with social anxiety
Wow man, you're definitely not alone. I've dreamed about a woman like this for years.
The thing about attractive women with SA is that an attractive a-hole probably wouldn't be able to get with her in the first place. If a woman with SA truly has it, then an aggressive, dominant male who is socially adept would probably be the biggest turn off in the world. Cheer up man, we still have a chance.
Now if I could just get my girlfriend to ditch the clubbing, everything would be perfect
Njodis said:
Wow man, you're definitely not alone. I've dreamed about a woman like this for years.
The thing about attractive women with SA is that an attractive a-hole probably wouldn't be able to get with her in the first place. If a woman with SA truly has it, then an aggressive, dominant male who is socially adept would probably be the biggest turn off in the world. Cheer up man, we still have a chance.
Now if I could just get my girlfriend to ditch the clubbing, everything would be perfect
boston12
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yea i like shy guys too..they are way more attractive then guys who are "macho" (my opinion anyways)...plus shy guys are like mysterious which is extreamly sexy!.. they would totally understand the way you feel..they are so calm.. i would be very uncomfortable with someone outgoing..
SocialRetahd
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boston12 said:
unfortunately, you are in the very small minority on this.
SocialRetahd
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oh whatever.
renegade
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I prefer an outgoing girl cause, as much as I would find shy girls attractive, beating SP would me much easier if you have an outgoing girl.
And I don't mean a person who likes to be in the center of attention, the life of the party or something like that< i'm talking about a normal girl who has a social life.
And my first relashionship was with an outgoing girl, maybe more than outgoing...and it felt good cause it's ''contagious'', if you know what I mean.
Of course I had difficult time at parties , but at least I got the chance to socialise whith her along my side. SHe knew I had SP and helped me all the way. The reason we broke up is beacause she had a different religion and was from a town far away from where I lived.
And I don't mean a person who likes to be in the center of attention, the life of the party or something like that< i'm talking about a normal girl who has a social life.
And my first relashionship was with an outgoing girl, maybe more than outgoing...and it felt good cause it's ''contagious'', if you know what I mean.
Of course I had difficult time at parties , but at least I got the chance to socialise whith her along my side. SHe knew I had SP and helped me all the way. The reason we broke up is beacause she had a different religion and was from a town far away from where I lived.