karut
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I just started college about a month ago, and I finally got enough courage to go talk to my adviser about my spring schedule, but he had to bring something else... I was doing okay when I was talking about my schedule because I'd rehearsed at least a thousand times what I needed to ask, but since I wasn't prepared for anything else, I froze up, starting shaking, sweating, dizziness, ext, ext...
I hadn't been attending any clubs or learning community things that I signed up for, so when he asked me why I'd been neglecting them I had to admit that I was afraid to go. So then he got into one-sided conversation where I basically stuttered "I don't know" to everyone of his questions about why I'm afraid and shy. It was really horrible... He offered to help me overcome my shyness and I agreed for some reason. I'm feel so nervous and sick about going back on Monday I've spent the past hour laying in bed.
I know what I'm experiencing is social anxiety even though it's self- diagnosed. I'm not sure if talking with him is going to help any since I'm guessing he's not experienced with dealing with the condition. I don't know if I should mention that I may have social anxiety disorder or not... Should I find real professional help or try working with my adviser? I'm not sure who else to go to, but I really want to get over this so I can start living a normal life.
I hadn't been attending any clubs or learning community things that I signed up for, so when he asked me why I'd been neglecting them I had to admit that I was afraid to go. So then he got into one-sided conversation where I basically stuttered "I don't know" to everyone of his questions about why I'm afraid and shy. It was really horrible... He offered to help me overcome my shyness and I agreed for some reason. I'm feel so nervous and sick about going back on Monday I've spent the past hour laying in bed.
I know what I'm experiencing is social anxiety even though it's self- diagnosed. I'm not sure if talking with him is going to help any since I'm guessing he's not experienced with dealing with the condition. I don't know if I should mention that I may have social anxiety disorder or not... Should I find real professional help or try working with my adviser? I'm not sure who else to go to, but I really want to get over this so I can start living a normal life.