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I'm sort of venting here, so I hope someone will listen:
So it's been over a year since I last went to church and miraculously my parents haven't tried to force me...until now. My mom told me I HAVE to go to church this Sunday just out of the blue, which as silly as it sounds may be a sign of the apocalypse. But the thing is I don't think that'd be a good place for me right now. My parents used to have me in activities with other kids at church and I remember being pretty much an outcast, (the way the other kids looked at me is something I've never been able to completely forget), and then to make matters worse (my parents can be good at that), they put me in the chior. It should come as no surprise that it wasn't long before I had my first big panic attack and had to quit the chior and pretty much quit church all together.
Anyway, I'm sure there'll be some big arguement between my parents and I about why I refuse to go back to that church. I hate it there. The people are so judgemental and my mom says people are always asking where I've been, as if they actually give a damn considering them and their kids constantly referred to me as "the quiet boy", or "the kind of kid I'd like to have around the house". I'd rather chew through my own leg than enter that church Sunday morning and have to walk down the aisle with all those eyes staring at me. And believe me they do because when I did go to church I felt like an ugly, handicapped runway model.
My parents know I have SA, but my mom in particular seems to enjoy ignoring it. It's as if she doesn't believe her son who does little more than sit in his room all day and keep to himself and sweats bullets whenever he has to talk to almost ANYONE could be afflicted with something as off the wall as SA, even though she was around when I was diagnosed with it. I was also diagnosed with homosexuality :? lol but that's another story for another time.
If my mom knew how just sitting in a church full of people could make me break out in a cold sweat, and tremble I wonder if she'd even try to force me back into the place I have affectionately named The House of Hypocrisy? I really just don't know what to do right now. Both of my parents have become impatient with me and my dad just thinks I'm a lazy-ass with no motivation or aspirations. Well he has the first part right, but that's just due to depression. I would try talking to them about how bad I feel lately, but I seem to have lost most of my ability to communicate with the parental thickheads.
So I've come here for advice and support. What should I do? I've already decided that another year of this empty, motionless life (as hasty and silly as it sounds) will surely result in suicide. I was on medication at one point but my parents took me off as they were worried about long-term effects. But I think the most important thing is that there is a [/i]long-term. Anyway, to anyone who is actually reading this I guess it went way beyond the whole church thing. I just need advice or something that's all. Thanks for listening.
So it's been over a year since I last went to church and miraculously my parents haven't tried to force me...until now. My mom told me I HAVE to go to church this Sunday just out of the blue, which as silly as it sounds may be a sign of the apocalypse. But the thing is I don't think that'd be a good place for me right now. My parents used to have me in activities with other kids at church and I remember being pretty much an outcast, (the way the other kids looked at me is something I've never been able to completely forget), and then to make matters worse (my parents can be good at that), they put me in the chior. It should come as no surprise that it wasn't long before I had my first big panic attack and had to quit the chior and pretty much quit church all together.
Anyway, I'm sure there'll be some big arguement between my parents and I about why I refuse to go back to that church. I hate it there. The people are so judgemental and my mom says people are always asking where I've been, as if they actually give a damn considering them and their kids constantly referred to me as "the quiet boy", or "the kind of kid I'd like to have around the house". I'd rather chew through my own leg than enter that church Sunday morning and have to walk down the aisle with all those eyes staring at me. And believe me they do because when I did go to church I felt like an ugly, handicapped runway model.
My parents know I have SA, but my mom in particular seems to enjoy ignoring it. It's as if she doesn't believe her son who does little more than sit in his room all day and keep to himself and sweats bullets whenever he has to talk to almost ANYONE could be afflicted with something as off the wall as SA, even though she was around when I was diagnosed with it. I was also diagnosed with homosexuality :? lol but that's another story for another time.
If my mom knew how just sitting in a church full of people could make me break out in a cold sweat, and tremble I wonder if she'd even try to force me back into the place I have affectionately named The House of Hypocrisy? I really just don't know what to do right now. Both of my parents have become impatient with me and my dad just thinks I'm a lazy-ass with no motivation or aspirations. Well he has the first part right, but that's just due to depression. I would try talking to them about how bad I feel lately, but I seem to have lost most of my ability to communicate with the parental thickheads.
So I've come here for advice and support. What should I do? I've already decided that another year of this empty, motionless life (as hasty and silly as it sounds) will surely result in suicide. I was on medication at one point but my parents took me off as they were worried about long-term effects. But I think the most important thing is that there is a [/i]long-term. Anyway, to anyone who is actually reading this I guess it went way beyond the whole church thing. I just need advice or something that's all. Thanks for listening.