Blueberry
Member
Hi everyone! I´m so glad I found this website.....I don´t feel so alone now. I didn´t know I had SA until just recently. I always thought I was just shy and super sensitive. My SA is mild but bad enough that I have problems getting out and making friends or agressively finding a job. I feel ashamed that I have this problem and I feel that "normal" people wouldn´t understand. I feel trapped, I feel like I´m in my own prison and I feel like the world is passing me by. I feel guily that I don´t make more of an effort to be brave. I feel like a coward for letting my fear control me. But staying at home is so much more comfortable where no one can judge me or embarass me and where I feel safe. I´ve accepted my problem and I love and trust myself but sometimes I feel that acceptance is also giving up or just an excuse to do nothing to help myself. I don´t want to take medication because I have taken medication before for depression and I didn´t like the way it made me feel fake like my happiness wasn´t real. It just wasn´t natural to be happy and perky all the time. Mind you it did help with my anxiety. I just wish I could snap my fingers and be able to face the world without fear and without shame. I´m glad that I found this website.....now I can share my feelings with people who understand.