nedkelly
Well-known member
Hi Everyone, how are you all going tday.
Sorry to bug you all again, about myself. Just that i'm having a bit of trouble with something that i think has developed from my social phobia.
Well', here it is...I fear very badly, noise from people that live around me.I am okay with noise at a distance, but i actually get really get afraid, by to loud a noise from my closest neighbours. I guess i have always been phobic of my neighbours(and that was going to be the topic).
But now that i have moved out of home, i cannot cope with my neighbours.
Though, i guess a big part of the reason, is having to move last time around due to neighbours from hell,and having moved into an even worse situation where we currently live. We are trying to find another property(prefferably rural), but these are hard to find(rent), and are expensive.
I have tried so hard to get used to all the noises,but i just can't seem to get used to it.
I guess also, i am a severe insomniac..which no doubt has conditioned me to dislike noise.
But i find myself going out so much(which is difficult to keep up), to no particular destination, just to gety away from it all.
I have a partner who finds it hard to cope with the noise, and she dose not have any anxiety problems. I put her through hell.
I do find it hard out of home, and not having my parents to take care of all the problems, i am finding the transition very difficult.
Am i being to hard on myself? I feel as though i am being irrational about this subject. But i generally feel great fear about noise/neighbours.
Do any of you guys have this pronlem at all?
Thanks for your help guys, hope i don't sound to desperate.
*I should note, that i am fine with noise anywhere else, but where i reside.
Sorry to bug you all again, about myself. Just that i'm having a bit of trouble with something that i think has developed from my social phobia.
Well', here it is...I fear very badly, noise from people that live around me.I am okay with noise at a distance, but i actually get really get afraid, by to loud a noise from my closest neighbours. I guess i have always been phobic of my neighbours(and that was going to be the topic).
But now that i have moved out of home, i cannot cope with my neighbours.
Though, i guess a big part of the reason, is having to move last time around due to neighbours from hell,and having moved into an even worse situation where we currently live. We are trying to find another property(prefferably rural), but these are hard to find(rent), and are expensive.
I have tried so hard to get used to all the noises,but i just can't seem to get used to it.
I guess also, i am a severe insomniac..which no doubt has conditioned me to dislike noise.
But i find myself going out so much(which is difficult to keep up), to no particular destination, just to gety away from it all.
I have a partner who finds it hard to cope with the noise, and she dose not have any anxiety problems. I put her through hell.
I do find it hard out of home, and not having my parents to take care of all the problems, i am finding the transition very difficult.
Am i being to hard on myself? I feel as though i am being irrational about this subject. But i generally feel great fear about noise/neighbours.
Do any of you guys have this pronlem at all?
Thanks for your help guys, hope i don't sound to desperate.
*I should note, that i am fine with noise anywhere else, but where i reside.