Nytro
Well-known member
Hello,
I was hoping some of you guys could help me out. For years I have been a very quite individual with neighbors and people in general. I have excellent listening skills and ask many questions while talking with diffrent ppl. My problem is sometimes I hold myself short and my mind begins racing on boring, or screwing up what im saying.Especially if I dont know much about what they are talking about.
I feel this is one of my last barriers from keeping me SA free. If a neighbor greets me, one i never talk to I come off as obrupt and breif maybe as I want them to go away. When I go to a dinner with friedns, some are always have something to talk about and keep the convo interesting but when i have something to say I usually kill the subject cuase of my self doubt.
If its something I really understand and know about them i can maintain eye contact and keep it interesting. I feel silly typing this becuase im 22 and lack some social skills that many are good it.
Please any help would be great.
I was hoping some of you guys could help me out. For years I have been a very quite individual with neighbors and people in general. I have excellent listening skills and ask many questions while talking with diffrent ppl. My problem is sometimes I hold myself short and my mind begins racing on boring, or screwing up what im saying.Especially if I dont know much about what they are talking about.
I feel this is one of my last barriers from keeping me SA free. If a neighbor greets me, one i never talk to I come off as obrupt and breif maybe as I want them to go away. When I go to a dinner with friedns, some are always have something to talk about and keep the convo interesting but when i have something to say I usually kill the subject cuase of my self doubt.
If its something I really understand and know about them i can maintain eye contact and keep it interesting. I feel silly typing this becuase im 22 and lack some social skills that many are good it.
Please any help would be great.