Recent content by mrbryan3

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    miserable even when happy

    ::(:Does anyone feel like theyre never happy no matter what. Thats how i feel. I feel like i almost have the word loser branded across my forehead. I feel damned if i do and damned if i dont. Ive moved several times still unhappy. Quit before i even started because I felt inferior. Tried to fit...
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    find a sa therapist in grand rapids

    does anyone know of a good therapist for sa in grand rapids michigan
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    can't approach women

    I am 32 and never had a date. I can't approach women. It takes alot of guts to say this but when i was 16 I asked a girl out for the first time and i wrote a note to her that i thought she would like. She reacted badly and accussed me of stalking her. It took everything I had to do it in the...
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    Am I ugly?

    It's another New Years eve and I'm alone. I dont have a girlfriend, but heres the kicker its because of my SA. I'm afraid to date. Or is it that women dont find me attractive. Girls on SA forum am I ugly? Friends have hinted that the want be to go out with them tonight and go meet some ladies...
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    bad reaction to paxil

    I have SA and was prescribed paxil. It worked for a day or so then I became violently ill. I also felt like I was drugged out of my mind. If you know of any good med please let me know. I was thinking about trying a thing i saw online called seryden. Has anyone tried this?
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    Other people getting in your head

    My anxiety increases when people tell me dont screw this up or dont get nervous. When they tell me this I automatically screw things up. Anybody else have this problem and if so how do you let them not get to you.
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    My life-help!!!

    Hi, my name is Mike and i have been bothered by SA and OCD since a teenager. I never thought I was good enough. Never played any sports, dated, or went to parties because I always thought I wasnt good enough. I asked one girl out she said no and i never asked again I am now 32. my thinking was...
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    always friend never boyfriend

    :mad:Can women sense that a socially anxious person is not confident. I'm a good looking guy but I am always passed up for my friends and given some lame ass excuse. Getting sick and tired of this. Its always been that way thats one of the reasons i feel so awkward. These kind of situations hurt...
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    Treated like you are stupid because of SA

    Does anyone here ever feel like they are treated like a child or like they are mentally handicaped because of their social anxiety. I mean I'm 32 and because I don't catch on fast enough sometime I am treated that way. People learn at different rates its a fact of life.:mad:
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    Social anxiety-my enemy

    Hi, I am in the entertainment business. Its my goal to make it. The problem is I have OCD/Social anxiety disorder that is stopping me from being successful. I worry so much about being judged that I am too reserved. When I was younger I never had any friends and never dated. Now I am tackling...
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