I had it pretty bad tonight

I went to a bar tonight with my friend Marc. It seemed pretty cool at first but even after a few drinks I still felt really shy and like everyone was whispering and talking shit about me amongst themselves about how I dress, how I walked, talked and everything. I tried dancing but even still no girls really wanted to dance and I just felt embrassed. A few times I just wanted to run out of the place and go home. As a result i was in a really bad mood and might have upset the friend i was with.

I cant do this anymore.. How the hell do I get over this. I'm serious, I dont want to be this way anymore!

I'm sorry that happened to you. Have you tried talking to your friend about how you feel? Maybe he could help you. I know that sometimes people may seem to talk about others, but was this really malicious? If they do say bad things about you, then they're not really worth it! Sorry, I'm not very good at advising people as to what they could do, but if you haven't already spoken to your friend about this, maybe you should try? Good luck!

Mike_D said:

like everyone was whispering and talking shit about me amongst themselves about how I dress, how I walked, talked and everything.

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I just want to point out if everyone was whispering how could you know this, I usaully shut down in situations like that get really withdraw, but i'm learning to actively listen to what actually going on.

You shouldn't care,dress how you want to dress, fuck em. My house mate fairly eccentric, ways odd stuff, once he walked around with a water pistol hanging from his trousers intially that seemed odd but after just didn't care, it was a gimic fun and who he is. I didn't think anything degrading about him because he wears odd stuff to me.

Richkid is absolutly right! F 'EM !! You may THINK they're talking about you, (i used to feel that way to) but if you actually listen to people talking you may find that you are really glad you're not one of them because their are some really shallowand stupis peoplw out there. Have you thought about switching the atmosphere of the bar. Instead of these clubs or really crowded bars, I found that I am soooooo much more comfortable in a nice laidback bar where I can sit take in the atmosphere and relax. just my 2 cents.