Do you sometimes feel like the whole worlds against you?

Does anyone ever have days when they feel like the whole worlds against them or that nobody likes you? I have felt like this many times before because of some bad experiences I have had with people. For example before I remember coming back from an errand and when I got by my house I could see woman standing outside the door talking to my mum. Turns out it was a saleswoman,anyway when I got by the door I said "excuse me" to her because she was in my way. But to my surprise she gave me a really nasty,dirty look! 8O It was like as if to say "What are you doing here?"or something I have had other experiences like that as well,when to the best of my knowledge I haven't done anything wrong,but people seem to treat me like shit and really negatively and I havent done anything to offend them! I just dont understand! :? Sometimes when I walk past someone on the street they might cough which I know is fake or sniff. I feel they do this because they don't like me because I suffer from SA/SP This in turn makes my phobia even worse and I feel really down and frustrated at why people treat me so negatively :x So am I totally alone in feeling this way or does anybody else feel the same?

dont worry buddy,

i was like u too.

i still remember the time when i said "WTF!?" to a bunch of project mates.

i meant it to be a joking manner, but they took it in an offensive way..

so the bunch didnot like me..

i also once said "excuse me" to a security guard, and he too looked at me like im some criminal trying to rob the bank or something..

that got me really depressed..

and to remind u, i think most of us experiece what u do..

I keep feeling like Iam totaly against myself

Yes, the whole world IS against me.

Yeah, sadly I feel that way too.

When I see a large gp(about 8 people) of youngsters laughing & joking loudly, I sometimes feel this sadness that I might never be able to do that(or have actally done that)...

& when I see how is it that guys treat some girls better than they do me, I get upset, rejected & sometimes unwanted as well...

When my peers do not treat me as well as others, I feel sad and wonder 'why', 'why', 'why'?

Lately though, this sadness seems to be turning into some sort of anger I have against the world...I seldom feel angry but I guess there's only so much one can take before they become cynical & react with anger :wink:

I sometimes feel this sadness that I might never be able to do that(or have actally done that)...

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I once asked my cousin about how many friends does he have, he replyed: " a lot".
-"like 10?"
-"may be more"
-"no, i'm talking about real friends, the ones you tell your secrets and hang out with you know?"
-"and that's who i talk about. i guess they are 15 or something"
-" 8O "

Now, how the hell is that fair?
i got none and he got 15? i wish i could have one or two. that's all i want from life. i don't want 15 i just want two.
i'm full of shit, i know.

Wow Spetacular...
I mean I can't imagine anyone(even without SA) having that many close friends. My conclusion? No.1 either he's lying or No.2 he's super super popular to have attracted so many close friends. I mean I don't think one can have that many close friends. At most, 5 or 6 good friends seem to be a pretty gd no, alr(even if u r non SA). I used to have this female teacher who was very attractive & had a nice personality. She was about 27 & told us(the class) that all her life, she could count on 1 hand her closest friends & that it is not actually easy to find good close friends. And she is non SA & pretty out going.

So cheer up :lol: Spetacular, ur cousin may juz be lying!

I feel like that every day. I know alot of people hate me, and I'm constantly being treated bad.