valexa
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A couple of weeks ago, in my class of Communication in college, we were talking about what's the issue with communication, why some people communicate better than others, why some prefer not to talk and avoid people, of course I felt that the class was being given to me cuz most of my classmates are extroverted. Anyway, the teacher explained that sure people who don't talk much do such because we are terrify people find out how awful our social skills are, but what was interesting was another thing she said: We are terrify to open up, to say: hey this is me, with all my faults, and I'm confortable in my own skin. So I thought about it and concluded: she's right.
Most of the time, I certainly do not feel confortable in my own skin. I feel tense, I feel like I'm not being me, like I'm not enjoying myself, that I'm too focused in my fear of people noticing my social skills are terrible that I stopped being me. I don't know if u know what I mean. Have u had those moments with anyone, any relative, friend, however, and u r feeling so good, like u r being urself, u r laughing, u r calm, u r relaxed, u don't care, u r confortable in ur own skin.
So, people are u confortable in ur own skin?
Most of the time, I certainly do not feel confortable in my own skin. I feel tense, I feel like I'm not being me, like I'm not enjoying myself, that I'm too focused in my fear of people noticing my social skills are terrible that I stopped being me. I don't know if u know what I mean. Have u had those moments with anyone, any relative, friend, however, and u r feeling so good, like u r being urself, u r laughing, u r calm, u r relaxed, u don't care, u r confortable in ur own skin.
So, people are u confortable in ur own skin?