Validation is one of the most crucial aspects of life that we all need. There are certain things people need to survive and to have a sense of well being. Food and sleep most people get, but validation is one that people often do not get.
If a child is not validated, they will go through life feeling disconnected and unwanted, unable to function properly. Validation means to affirm that someone is acceptable and okay just as they are. To treat a person as if they are a person of great worth. If this is done properly, anxiety and depression will be kept very low.
If a parent is not validated themselves, then they cannot properly validate their child.