veggielover
Well-known member
A quick journal...........
I call myself a loser because whenever I try to make plans with someone they are already doing something else with other friends. I feel like they are this tight little cluster and I'm desperately trying to fit in, but it just won't happen. I feel like every time I ask one of those friends to hang out, they must just roll their eyes and think to themselves, "god, why is this loser trying to talk to me?" The thing is though, these people befriend me only when they want to, only when their other friends aren't around. I guess I'm not cool enough to hang out with them AND their other friends..it makes me feel like shit. I try not to take it so seriously, but this is how I feel and this is how they make me feel. It's like why do I even try anymore? I guess because I don't have any other friends. It always comes back to this....not having other friends. Trying to make friends with old friends who have moved on to other groups of friends. They make me feel welcom when they actually hang out with me, but I think the reality is that they are just using me. They are not my real friends. Now what? I don't know who else to go to because they are all I really have...even though its not real. I feel disgusted that I try so hard to keep these friendships now that I know their real characteristics towards me. Or maybe I'm completely wrong, yeah right..
I call myself a loser because whenever I try to make plans with someone they are already doing something else with other friends. I feel like they are this tight little cluster and I'm desperately trying to fit in, but it just won't happen. I feel like every time I ask one of those friends to hang out, they must just roll their eyes and think to themselves, "god, why is this loser trying to talk to me?" The thing is though, these people befriend me only when they want to, only when their other friends aren't around. I guess I'm not cool enough to hang out with them AND their other friends..it makes me feel like shit. I try not to take it so seriously, but this is how I feel and this is how they make me feel. It's like why do I even try anymore? I guess because I don't have any other friends. It always comes back to this....not having other friends. Trying to make friends with old friends who have moved on to other groups of friends. They make me feel welcom when they actually hang out with me, but I think the reality is that they are just using me. They are not my real friends. Now what? I don't know who else to go to because they are all I really have...even though its not real. I feel disgusted that I try so hard to keep these friendships now that I know their real characteristics towards me. Or maybe I'm completely wrong, yeah right..