There's a few things that concern me about his behaviours... firstly, the lack of anything on his Facecrap wall. Even myself, who is about as socially-dead as the best of them, still finds occasion to toss up a link to a news article or cute kitty meme. But absolutely nothing since 2011? That just spells suspicious to me. Either he went through and deleted everything, to be rid of reminders of a bad break-up or some such, fell so hard into the bottle that two years have flown by, or something else happened that meant he couldn't access the social-networks (ie jail/psychiatric incarceration)...
Secondly, however, an extrovert probably wouldn't allow so much time to pass by before texting/messaging, especially a contact on a dating site that was showing interest. It could be that he was being truthful about being dragged to clubs and winding up dead drunk to tolerate the atmosphere... but if he lives alone and is drinking, then that might hint to problems he's not being truthful about.
I wouldn't really suggest going so far out of your own area to meet this guy, though. If he was interested enough, then he'd travel to your location, and not the other way around. Play a little more hard-to-get; maybe even officially cancel the plans to see how bad his anger-response will be. If he's understanding, compassionate, and caring, then he'll let it slide and offer to re-schedule the date to a time that would better suit you.
And don't worry about the never-been-kissed thing. That kind of stuff comes later, when you're comfortable enough with your partner, and a decent level of trust has been established.
Take it slow, and try not to push yourself into a potentially dangerous situation. >.<