Hello everyone. I'm in a bit of a fix, so I would really appreciate some input from you guys! Sorry, the post may be a little longwinded too. -_-
Recently, I've met a girl that I've grown a likening for. She works in a Chinese Take Away place, directly across the road from my work. Since I started to go there on a daily basis to pick up lunch a few weeks ago, I'd always see her and be served by her. After a while, we started talking more in our encounters, until recently I went there on a day off just to talk to her some more.
I discovered she had similar personality traits as myself, she also had a negative way of thinking, you know, something I could relate to. Anyway, she really opened up to me, talking about her past and family problems etc. I sat and listened to her, as I thought that was what was most appropriate at the time, to be a listening ear for her. Mind you, this all happened in one meeting at the end of her shift inside the take away shop. Anyway, when it came time to leave, she even offered me a lift to the bus stop so I could take the bus home. I think I'm confident enough to say that she may like me too.
Now comes my problem. What should I do next? My friend says I should ask her out for coffee, but I don't drink coffee. Actually, I don't drink anything like that, and I'm inexperienced with outings of that nature (sitting in cafes, drinking coffee) etc. That probably sounds bizarre, but I just never have done that before, well, rarely. It's uncomfortable, and so is asking her out for dinner, because I'm still trying to get over an eating disorder which makes it difficult for me to eat in public. I've only just started eating in restaurants with my friends after 5 years of not doing so, but I'm not ready to do it with someone I like, it's far too nervewracking yet!
Does anyone have any advice? Something I can do? I really don't want to waste this opportunity.
Thanks, and sorry for the length.
Recently, I've met a girl that I've grown a likening for. She works in a Chinese Take Away place, directly across the road from my work. Since I started to go there on a daily basis to pick up lunch a few weeks ago, I'd always see her and be served by her. After a while, we started talking more in our encounters, until recently I went there on a day off just to talk to her some more.
I discovered she had similar personality traits as myself, she also had a negative way of thinking, you know, something I could relate to. Anyway, she really opened up to me, talking about her past and family problems etc. I sat and listened to her, as I thought that was what was most appropriate at the time, to be a listening ear for her. Mind you, this all happened in one meeting at the end of her shift inside the take away shop. Anyway, when it came time to leave, she even offered me a lift to the bus stop so I could take the bus home. I think I'm confident enough to say that she may like me too.
Now comes my problem. What should I do next? My friend says I should ask her out for coffee, but I don't drink coffee. Actually, I don't drink anything like that, and I'm inexperienced with outings of that nature (sitting in cafes, drinking coffee) etc. That probably sounds bizarre, but I just never have done that before, well, rarely. It's uncomfortable, and so is asking her out for dinner, because I'm still trying to get over an eating disorder which makes it difficult for me to eat in public. I've only just started eating in restaurants with my friends after 5 years of not doing so, but I'm not ready to do it with someone I like, it's far too nervewracking yet!
Does anyone have any advice? Something I can do? I really don't want to waste this opportunity.
Thanks, and sorry for the length.