grapevine
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My bf is on Risperdal that he gets a jab once every fortnight. It's an anti- psychotic & has a lot of side effects including tiredness. He is also a heavy smoker, rolling & smoking his cigarettes every 45 mins or less. He is a solid muscular build guy with a big bloated fat gut too. He mainly eats a lot of dairy foods - and processed stuff and toast with lots of butter. He drinks ice coffee all the time too.
He doesn't work after being sacked from my old stupid boss ( who made the business I work at go bankrupt) . But he recently volunteers a few days a week at a large 2nd shop. But apart from that, his days are aren't really structured.
Anyway, I just get so disappointed, it's ruining our relationship on my end - he lately isn't sexually active or engaging at all.
I'm so tired of him going to bed at around 8:00 at night - it's still light out. And a lot of times in the day he just lacks energy - like he is some old man ( we are in our early 30s). I get so bored and think he doesn't want me anymore. That I'm taking for granted.
It's hard to interact with him as when he is up he spends so long on Facebook that I just see the back of his head. Hardly any engagement. And times when he does it's about him or it's him being funny and silly and making me laugh.
But most of the time he is just exahausted and wanting to sleep.
And it's just so frustrating.
It's hard to cope with ESP when it's all the time. I go out of my way and time to spend time with him at his place and he just wants to sleep. You know it's like why did I rush and make my food to bfi g over and pack if when I get there he is just going to sleep at 8:00 all the time .
But then sometimes he doesn't even go to bed at all - usually once or so a fortnight because he slept so myluch the days before and I find it hard to sleep with him walking around and his computer glare etc.
It's just so disappointing and frustrating because I crave interaction and giving up my time to be over his and he mainly is just always on the computer or sleeping . When I get films he doesn't even have the attention span to watch them. When I've made or bought food for him most of it goes to waste. When I've made a garden at his, it's been me doing it all. When we go out it's usually always with my car and my petrol all the time and usually my money we use to eat out or buy things in a shop that he forgets to pay me back. He only gets $20 a day as his dad controls his pension since he was sick with a psychosis 8 years ago.
It's just so frustrating.
He doesn't work after being sacked from my old stupid boss ( who made the business I work at go bankrupt) . But he recently volunteers a few days a week at a large 2nd shop. But apart from that, his days are aren't really structured.
Anyway, I just get so disappointed, it's ruining our relationship on my end - he lately isn't sexually active or engaging at all.
I'm so tired of him going to bed at around 8:00 at night - it's still light out. And a lot of times in the day he just lacks energy - like he is some old man ( we are in our early 30s). I get so bored and think he doesn't want me anymore. That I'm taking for granted.
It's hard to interact with him as when he is up he spends so long on Facebook that I just see the back of his head. Hardly any engagement. And times when he does it's about him or it's him being funny and silly and making me laugh.
But most of the time he is just exahausted and wanting to sleep.
And it's just so frustrating.
It's hard to cope with ESP when it's all the time. I go out of my way and time to spend time with him at his place and he just wants to sleep. You know it's like why did I rush and make my food to bfi g over and pack if when I get there he is just going to sleep at 8:00 all the time .
But then sometimes he doesn't even go to bed at all - usually once or so a fortnight because he slept so myluch the days before and I find it hard to sleep with him walking around and his computer glare etc.
It's just so disappointing and frustrating because I crave interaction and giving up my time to be over his and he mainly is just always on the computer or sleeping . When I get films he doesn't even have the attention span to watch them. When I've made or bought food for him most of it goes to waste. When I've made a garden at his, it's been me doing it all. When we go out it's usually always with my car and my petrol all the time and usually my money we use to eat out or buy things in a shop that he forgets to pay me back. He only gets $20 a day as his dad controls his pension since he was sick with a psychosis 8 years ago.
It's just so frustrating.
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