grapevine
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So my partner smokes like a chimney and Im a health nut.
When I am over his place- he smokes in the room, and his sister comes in and smokes in the room too. We sleep in that room.
..full of tobacco smoke.
I havent been exposed in my life to that until now and it makes me feel ill. My lungs hurt and my throat. For a little over a month Ive been exposed to it and it makes me feel so violated as my health is my biggest value.
He knows that I dont like it, Ive told him. Sometimes he will go outside to smoke, but then half an hour later and every time after .. smoke back inside like he has forgotten.
It sux big time. Waking up feeling ill. Feeling dirty all the time like smokey acid on your skin..
The worst thing is that he actually smoked in my car and still does. He ruined my car!!! : ((
How do I get the smoke out of it???
So everytime I drive my car now - I get ill - and in the cold of winter and rain have my windows down.
I told him not to smoke in my car .. kinda -- yet he did/forgot / doesnt understand...?? He thinks just having a window slightly open is enough.. omg..
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..or having the door open in the car and smoking like that .. but the smoke enters the car still..
How do I approach this? Im feeling so ill .. how do I put my foot down and honour my values whilst being in this relationship??
When I am over his place- he smokes in the room, and his sister comes in and smokes in the room too. We sleep in that room.
..full of tobacco smoke.
I havent been exposed in my life to that until now and it makes me feel ill. My lungs hurt and my throat. For a little over a month Ive been exposed to it and it makes me feel so violated as my health is my biggest value.
He knows that I dont like it, Ive told him. Sometimes he will go outside to smoke, but then half an hour later and every time after .. smoke back inside like he has forgotten.
It sux big time. Waking up feeling ill. Feeling dirty all the time like smokey acid on your skin..
The worst thing is that he actually smoked in my car and still does. He ruined my car!!! : ((
How do I get the smoke out of it???
So everytime I drive my car now - I get ill - and in the cold of winter and rain have my windows down.
I told him not to smoke in my car .. kinda -- yet he did/forgot / doesnt understand...?? He thinks just having a window slightly open is enough.. omg..
: (
..or having the door open in the car and smoking like that .. but the smoke enters the car still..
How do I approach this? Im feeling so ill .. how do I put my foot down and honour my values whilst being in this relationship??