Tempus35
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I say what is the in title, because I really just am. I was out tonight and we ended up coming across an old friend, "old" friend meaning he stopped really talking to us a bit ago. But when he and his girlfriend saw me and my other friend, being that it was his bday dinner, they invited us over. Well great, thanks for the invite before. But whatever we go hang out, well I am my normal not talkative, lets sit here and do nothing self. In the end I we sat there for a long time, and I was getting to the point where I wanted to leave, get away. Well that didn't happen. Turns out we are now going to a new restaurant and I am expected to come along. Well I do, I can never turn down things right.
At this new place we sit around again, and there is even more people, 2 more. And I am just sitting there, saying something at times, nothing intelligent. Listening to what others talk about. And just listening to them, I feel so loser like. They talk about going on trips all over, to having these cool apartments, to things like "I wouldn't have sex with a virgin, it is odd", etc. Well none of that makes me feel any better. I am a virgin, I have no money for trips or an apartment, hell I can barely hold jobs at times. They also talked about body hair, and well I have that, and their comments weren't boosting anything in my self-esteem. What else, well just many things, and as the night went on I came to feel so much a loser.
Why is it that I am this way. Things like those get togethers are suppose to be fun, to make you happy. It instead makes me depressed. I am never going to be like others, not only because of my issues with SP and depression, but just because I don't like talking or doing stuff most people do.
Sorry for the venting/pity thing. I am just upset.
At this new place we sit around again, and there is even more people, 2 more. And I am just sitting there, saying something at times, nothing intelligent. Listening to what others talk about. And just listening to them, I feel so loser like. They talk about going on trips all over, to having these cool apartments, to things like "I wouldn't have sex with a virgin, it is odd", etc. Well none of that makes me feel any better. I am a virgin, I have no money for trips or an apartment, hell I can barely hold jobs at times. They also talked about body hair, and well I have that, and their comments weren't boosting anything in my self-esteem. What else, well just many things, and as the night went on I came to feel so much a loser.
Why is it that I am this way. Things like those get togethers are suppose to be fun, to make you happy. It instead makes me depressed. I am never going to be like others, not only because of my issues with SP and depression, but just because I don't like talking or doing stuff most people do.
Sorry for the venting/pity thing. I am just upset.