mandylovesdan
New member
i have a really bad jealousy issue that i want to fix. i
have never been a jealous person i have never had problems
with previous guys ive dated to hang out with chicks alone
and go out to clubs, look at porn, talk to chicks, check
them out, tell me about chicks they thought were hot,
hanging with ex girlfriends etc. my new relationship is
awesome and i love him so much but now im OVERWHELMED with
jealousy. another thing thats new is i have always been a
sweet fun happy person but since i have felt my first
feeling of jealousy i have become moody, bitchy, nagging,
clingy, paranoid, and the list goes on. this is not me at
all i hate feeling this way and i know that this will break
my relationship up if i do not fix this problem. now when
my boyfriend checks out other chicks (which includes online-
porn chats looking at chick profiles etc, when he looks at
them in person(when were outside in stores etc) and on tv
and in magazines. ive already told him how i feel but he
says he doesnt do it consiously and that he has a
fascintation with the female body which i know how that is
cuz im the same way with guys and always have been but i
control it now and have found strategies to make sure i
dont even look anymore because i know how it feels when he
looks . but even talking to him he still does it and its
not right for me to tell him not to so i wont but everytime
he does im overcome with stomache PAIN so freaking painful
and then the pain moves to my heart then my brain and i
want to scream and then i get bitchy and angry and i want
this feeling to stop. i dont want to feel angry anymore its
made me bitchy all the time my whole personality has
changed along with my sense of humor. i need advice for
getting over this..any help would be so appreciative..i
dont want my relationship to fail cuz i cant get over him
looking or having any affiliation with chicks.
background info...i have been cheated on with other guys
and lied to so im sure this has to do with it since with
them i never had jealousy and didnt care about them being
around ex's and hanging out with other chicks. my mom has
been cheated on also which im sure doesnt help my new
fears. i honestly dont believe he would cheat on me so
thats not the problem. its what i stated at the top. and
its hard to find a time when chicks arent around. our
society is male based so everywhere are chicks, titty bars,
porn, sexy chicks in mags and in movies and so on and so
forth so i really need advice for this to end cuz its
everywhere so i feel it all the time.
thank you
oh ya and just some more info on the type of porn he
likes...its just the webcam with one girl naked or in
underwear so theres no sex going on which actually bothers
me more than if he were to be watching an actual sexual act
have never been a jealous person i have never had problems
with previous guys ive dated to hang out with chicks alone
and go out to clubs, look at porn, talk to chicks, check
them out, tell me about chicks they thought were hot,
hanging with ex girlfriends etc. my new relationship is
awesome and i love him so much but now im OVERWHELMED with
jealousy. another thing thats new is i have always been a
sweet fun happy person but since i have felt my first
feeling of jealousy i have become moody, bitchy, nagging,
clingy, paranoid, and the list goes on. this is not me at
all i hate feeling this way and i know that this will break
my relationship up if i do not fix this problem. now when
my boyfriend checks out other chicks (which includes online-
porn chats looking at chick profiles etc, when he looks at
them in person(when were outside in stores etc) and on tv
and in magazines. ive already told him how i feel but he
says he doesnt do it consiously and that he has a
fascintation with the female body which i know how that is
cuz im the same way with guys and always have been but i
control it now and have found strategies to make sure i
dont even look anymore because i know how it feels when he
looks . but even talking to him he still does it and its
not right for me to tell him not to so i wont but everytime
he does im overcome with stomache PAIN so freaking painful
and then the pain moves to my heart then my brain and i
want to scream and then i get bitchy and angry and i want
this feeling to stop. i dont want to feel angry anymore its
made me bitchy all the time my whole personality has
changed along with my sense of humor. i need advice for
getting over this..any help would be so appreciative..i
dont want my relationship to fail cuz i cant get over him
looking or having any affiliation with chicks.
background info...i have been cheated on with other guys
and lied to so im sure this has to do with it since with
them i never had jealousy and didnt care about them being
around ex's and hanging out with other chicks. my mom has
been cheated on also which im sure doesnt help my new
fears. i honestly dont believe he would cheat on me so
thats not the problem. its what i stated at the top. and
its hard to find a time when chicks arent around. our
society is male based so everywhere are chicks, titty bars,
porn, sexy chicks in mags and in movies and so on and so
forth so i really need advice for this to end cuz its
everywhere so i feel it all the time.
thank you
oh ya and just some more info on the type of porn he
likes...its just the webcam with one girl naked or in
underwear so theres no sex going on which actually bothers
me more than if he were to be watching an actual sexual act