SilentRain
Member
Right now I'm having the same dilemma again. My lack of being social is screwing up my chances of having a relationship. The first guy that left me because of it wasn't very understanding or helpful and pretty much said if I wasn't the life of the party that night I was getting the boot. He was obviously no good but I am currently in a 2 year relationship with a great guy. We are matches for each other except I'm not as social as him and it's starting to put a strain on us. It's to the point I can understand where he's comming from. I can't even go to a family cook out or hang with his friends so I'm kind of like the secret girlfriend that's hidden in the closet. He's more patient and willing to do anything to help me open up a little more. He doesn't expect me to be the life of the party, he just wants for me to be able to hold at least one full conversation wilth a couple of people and smile. But it's just so hard! I don't want to ruin this chance because of it.