gingergirl
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Hello i'm new on here so bear with me .I recently split up with my boyfriend.He has very important-to him-ways that i didnt live up to and in the end because of this-he basically dumped me.
These things include-if he shakes someones hand outside he wont touch his face till he can wash his hands,he doesnt allow slippers on the bed,he will not use public toilets,lots of others i cant even think about at the moment but the fact that he said to me-he has to feel able to be free around someone and if hes intimate with that person and they do things he doesnt agree with(i put my slipper on the bed,and tissues)-he cannot be close to them and has to keep them at arms length.
I feel like if i'd slept with someone else itd be easier to understand but the fact that he doesnt want to be with me because i dont aspire to his expectations really hurts.
i just would like to know-does that seem like OCD/OCPD to anyone?
These things include-if he shakes someones hand outside he wont touch his face till he can wash his hands,he doesnt allow slippers on the bed,he will not use public toilets,lots of others i cant even think about at the moment but the fact that he said to me-he has to feel able to be free around someone and if hes intimate with that person and they do things he doesnt agree with(i put my slipper on the bed,and tissues)-he cannot be close to them and has to keep them at arms length.
I feel like if i'd slept with someone else itd be easier to understand but the fact that he doesnt want to be with me because i dont aspire to his expectations really hurts.
i just would like to know-does that seem like OCD/OCPD to anyone?