funnyman - Yes, there are support groups of various sorts, though few locally. The SP group I attended was very disappointing as the facilitator knew next to nothing about SP, and the group never stayed on topic. Educating them was futile. The group subsequently folded.
Guest - Definitely meeting more people helps, and I do that, but after a very long dry run (years) of not making close connections, it's become rather discouraging. Nevertheless I continue. The alternatives are worse.
>>I have been reminde by my counsellor that it's unreasonable to expect myself to form close relationships with everyone I meet.<<
Well over 95% of people I meet I doubt I'd want a close friendship with. There have to be some common values, interests and purpose.
Like you, I think I've become cautious initiating friendships, mainly because I've been burnt so many times. Before I invest my diminishing free time, I have to see some possibilities. I made what I thought was a close connection in a support group, only to have it flop 2 years later - some major philosophical differences apparently, not to mention a large dose of disingenuousness on their part.
>>I think it's good ot pursue your own interests. This is probably the best way to meet people who you are compatible with.<<
I agree 100%!
Good luck and keep attending the groups. For my part, I feel I'll have to switch to some other groups here.