bashfulgirl
Active member
I seem to be more depressed than ever right now because I just can't see any possibility for change. I'm so screwed up and have thot over the years, oh surely by 25 yrs old I'll be better...oh surely by 35 yrs old I'll be better...now I'm 42 and just can't seem to make any progress. When I go anywhere at all I'm nervous and worried that people will notice how I never have anything interesting to say. My neighbors try to hide from me because I'm so hard to talk to. I've never been happy and always scared of everything.
When I was little I was afraid of everyone and everything from the very first moment I can remember, so I never learned how to talk to people or relate with people. Something happened when I was born that wasn't right and I was sad all the time and angry all the time,I was never right and cried every day of preschool when I went at age 4 and everyday of Kind and first grade. I finally was able to stop crying in 2nd grade, but spent most of the day playing by myself at the back of the classroom away from everyone. I was uncomfortable around my family and hid in my room all the time. I was not happy to be alive or to be me. I was sick to my stomach every day of school growing up and afraid of everyone and feel the same way today with any encounter with people.
I know suicide isn't the answer altho I've thot about it a jillion times. But I just don't feel I've made any progress in my life and can't figure out how to. How to be comfortable in any situation, how to hold a normal conversation, how to not feel aweful almost every moment of the day. Just can't figure out how to feel better. Help.
When I was little I was afraid of everyone and everything from the very first moment I can remember, so I never learned how to talk to people or relate with people. Something happened when I was born that wasn't right and I was sad all the time and angry all the time,I was never right and cried every day of preschool when I went at age 4 and everyday of Kind and first grade. I finally was able to stop crying in 2nd grade, but spent most of the day playing by myself at the back of the classroom away from everyone. I was uncomfortable around my family and hid in my room all the time. I was not happy to be alive or to be me. I was sick to my stomach every day of school growing up and afraid of everyone and feel the same way today with any encounter with people.
I know suicide isn't the answer altho I've thot about it a jillion times. But I just don't feel I've made any progress in my life and can't figure out how to. How to be comfortable in any situation, how to hold a normal conversation, how to not feel aweful almost every moment of the day. Just can't figure out how to feel better. Help.