feeling comfortable is actually the problem?

[wooaah]

I have managed to put myself in a situation where i feel comfortable. In my job, in my personal life. Unfortunately for someone as shy as me, that means i'm not being challenged, I'm not taking on more responsibility, i'm not meeting new people, and my level of maturity, as a person, is still the same as it was years ago.

I feel like i'm watching the few people I do know grow up and leave me behind. And I'm reluctant to make a change because I like where i am.

To change I know i need to take a risk, change my job, meet new people, and its so tough to throw away short term comfort to make that decision. I'm beginning to wonder if this is the most dangerous situation to be in as short term stretches into long term.

 

[Pyrophosphate]

I'd say if you like where you are, what's the problem?

 

[Section_31]

Hey Wooa,

I cant speak for you. I dont know you or your situation. In my personal case though, i figure we have a hard enough time as it is getting through life, if i can find somthing somewhere with a job i can do, and earn enough to survive thats enough for me.

Is it comfort? or boredom that your having problems with?>

 

[atavistic]

I get what you mean. Find the courage to push yourself imo. Reach for the skies.

 

[thor01]

I'd say if you like where you are, what's the problem?

Exactly this!

You don't have to look at others and do the same.

I don't even wanna "grow up" anyway, I dont see the fun in it hah.