van_sp
Active member
Ignore the phone because it's easier than explaining to your friends why you feel like vegging at home even though you're single and it's Saturday night?
It's St. Patty's Day and half the city is out tonight. So what! Does that mean I'm weird because I'd rather sit at home and read a book and play my guitar?
I don't consider myself an introvert but sometimes I like doing my own thing. Why go out just for the sake of going out? I went out two weeks ago and it cost me a hundred bucks, a nasty hangover, and minor embarrassment.
I don't know how, but I trained my mind to think I'm a loser for staying home or not having a lot of friends.
But part of me doesn't want a lot of friends because it can take up a lot of time to maintain those friendships. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I need to be out all the time...
I was having this conversation in my head so I thought I'd see if anyone ever feels similar.
It's St. Patty's Day and half the city is out tonight. So what! Does that mean I'm weird because I'd rather sit at home and read a book and play my guitar?
I don't consider myself an introvert but sometimes I like doing my own thing. Why go out just for the sake of going out? I went out two weeks ago and it cost me a hundred bucks, a nasty hangover, and minor embarrassment.
I don't know how, but I trained my mind to think I'm a loser for staying home or not having a lot of friends.
But part of me doesn't want a lot of friends because it can take up a lot of time to maintain those friendships. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I need to be out all the time...
I was having this conversation in my head so I thought I'd see if anyone ever feels similar.