Hola,
People use to have the impression that avoidants are sloopy people, careless of their higiene.
My last psychologist put the stress on the importance of taking care of the image we project other people. It's not for narcissist reason but bc we have a part of our self-steem which is fed by the feedback other people provide us. That is, the social self-steem.
To be honest, I used to be careless of my look. Most of the time due to depression. I didn't give a damn about anything.
If I wasn't depressive, I was in a low mood and procrastinated as hell. I didn't like to go to a hairdresser's bc, you know, hairdressers don't stop talking ever.
I neither liked to go shopping bc nothing get well on me.
I stopped doing physical exercise because when I was in my teens, I used to do it everyday and along with eating little...I don't know bc I thought it would solve all my problems, but I realized I did all these things for nothing.
What do you think? What's your case? Are you feeding your social self-steem?
People use to have the impression that avoidants are sloopy people, careless of their higiene.
My last psychologist put the stress on the importance of taking care of the image we project other people. It's not for narcissist reason but bc we have a part of our self-steem which is fed by the feedback other people provide us. That is, the social self-steem.
To be honest, I used to be careless of my look. Most of the time due to depression. I didn't give a damn about anything.
If I wasn't depressive, I was in a low mood and procrastinated as hell. I didn't like to go to a hairdresser's bc, you know, hairdressers don't stop talking ever.
I neither liked to go shopping bc nothing get well on me.
I stopped doing physical exercise because when I was in my teens, I used to do it everyday and along with eating little...I don't know bc I thought it would solve all my problems, but I realized I did all these things for nothing.
What do you think? What's your case? Are you feeding your social self-steem?