They probably mean it, but I've learned that cute doesn't = the guy they want to date.girls say im cute
They probably mean it, but I've learned that cute doesn't = the guy they want to date.
Yeah i know how you feel... popular, good looking girls think im cute too and flirt with me. They always ask me why i don't talk, and tell me that i need to talk more. Today a girl asked me if i had a tongue. And the other day i herd a girl tell her friend that she thinks im really cute but am really shy. I don't think they understand my problem. The fact that girls are interested in me only makes me more depressed and shy (yeah i know, weird) because i get the feeling that a relationship is available but i cant have it or deserve it... if that makes any since.
But yeah i think girls like shy guys because we are mysterious and different than the typical guy.
In answer to the first paragraph- At least they show interest in you, I havnt had any intrest in me shown. Even if they showed interst but commented on how quiet i was, i wouldnt mind, at least it would be something. It would still make me feel better than never being noticed by girls. Don't like to admit it but reading stuff like that makes me feel really jealous. And personally i wouldnt say i'm ugly, but it does it just makes me wonder if its got anything to do with how i look when ive never been told how i look from a girls perspective, or had any interest shown in me from them. Makes me sometimes think I'm ugly when if it wasn't for that i'd think I looked fine really. Maybe its because i have long hair, who knows.
In aswer to last line- Well i hope really hope some do, i would love to think that some do, and I wish there were some who i knew. The ones i come into contact with (not really contact but you know, in my surroundings) seem to be the opposite.
Im sorry if it sounded like i was bragging but im not. Its so weird because girls view me as cute but i don't see myself as good looking. Maybe thats why im so shy... because i don't feel like i deserve to be with beautiful girls.
Because It's weird and foreign to their personality, and they legitimately want to know why. Many girls are socialized on a level that is hard to comprehend.Why do they always ask one why one's so quiet if they know one is shy?
Lots of generalizing here,it goes both ways...I keep hearing these phrases about how girls have been socialized,what about how the boys have been socialized and how it may affect the shy girls?
I think everyone can agree that pop stars serving as role models to impressionable girls is a very very bad thing. It's a shame that all those fashion magazines are marketed towards teen girls, and the teen girls are buying into it :/Maybe the pressure to look and behave like some of these vapid hollywood bimbos that are plastered all over the tv and magazines..What if some amazing girls dont feel they can ever compete with that thus resulting in them becoming shy and insecure..Since looks seems to be such a high priority these days and of utmost importance..e.g-a talentless Britney Spears becoming as rich and famous as she did,do you think she would have if she was unattractive?