queenhelena
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Does anyone else get bothered by criticism from others? I was just wondering if anyone else has ever felt like it made them feel like they are worthless. Like it did for me. I just feel like I am always criticized and I don't know why. :/ Oh and also I hung out with this guy who said "Don't forget to take care of yourself." What would make a guy say this? Maybe to look out for me? He also thought I have break downs. But I don't know what he's talking about. We barely talked or hung out. I think he thought I was like him. But I don't get it why he thought that. Maybe to rush a relationship. He freaked out when I came late. My bad. He also thought I focus on the past,can't handle stress well, and he thought I was lonely, and he thinks I don't compromise. He said those things and I just didn't know what to think. He thought that I couldn't handle myself because I had a stone with me. But that's not what I use it for. Also I couldn't understand this moment he and I had. I said something and I can't really remember. But I remember that I was in a good mood. And he just stopped and stared at me. I think he was judging me for what I said or couldn't stand it. I don't know. After that one time hanging out. I didn't like being with him.Hanging out with him in general made me feel alone. I felt he just criticized me the whole time and acted like he didn't have problems at all. He just pointed out my flaws. That really upset me. I don't understand guys. I just need to understand whats going on. I think I do. But I need a second opinion. I don't want to misconstrue any messages he was trying to convey . Thanks.