Pacific_Loner
Pirate from the North Pole
I hate making plans.
I hate when people ask me to do something with them days in advance, even the day before, because it makes me feel trapped. What if the day comes and I don't feel like going?
I hate bringing people along on trips because it means if I'm driving east and in the middle of it I decide I want to go north, I might not be able to do it, because I have to negociate with someone, and this person might be too confused with the change of plan. If I bring more than one person, don't even think about it.
The same way, I've proven the last couple of years that I am unable to commit to a relationship because as soon as I start having responsabilities towards the other person, I feel trapped. I feel like being in a relationship means having to report yourself to each other all the time, and it's deeply annoying to me. I've made a lot of progress lately SA-wise, but I'm not sure how to address this one.
Anyone relate?
I hate when people ask me to do something with them days in advance, even the day before, because it makes me feel trapped. What if the day comes and I don't feel like going?
I hate bringing people along on trips because it means if I'm driving east and in the middle of it I decide I want to go north, I might not be able to do it, because I have to negociate with someone, and this person might be too confused with the change of plan. If I bring more than one person, don't even think about it.
The same way, I've proven the last couple of years that I am unable to commit to a relationship because as soon as I start having responsabilities towards the other person, I feel trapped. I feel like being in a relationship means having to report yourself to each other all the time, and it's deeply annoying to me. I've made a lot of progress lately SA-wise, but I'm not sure how to address this one.
Anyone relate?