blushing...

[anuskas]

Anyone here blushes when talking to someone of the opposite gender? If so can you describe some situations?

 

[MrJones]

I used to blush a lot but, for me, the worst thing was not being able to talk at all.

Now, I can have a relatively normal conversation and I usually don't blush , only in certain situations.

 

[Pearldaffodil]

I blush when I get frustrated or someone teases me. I used to get hot and sweaty and blush when my boss confronted me and I could not talk properly.

 

[Phoenixx]

I blush when talking to just about anybody I don't know or hardly know, doesn't matter the gender. Although I do tend to blush more if I'm talking to someone of the opposite sex that's attractive.

 

[AimeeSP]

Always, no matter what gender though. Its very embarrassing but i've learned to accept i can't control it and just ignore it.

 

[coyote]

i've been told that my ears turn red when i'm aroused

my ex-wife would watch me whenever i talked to another woman, and if my ears got red she'd get really mad

 

[Iseesky]

Always, no matter what gender though. Its very embarrassing but i've learned to accept i can't control it and just ignore it.

In my experience, accepting it makes it go away! I used to blush around everyone...male or female. But I began to accept it and eventually I noticed that despite being nervous around cute boys, my face stopped going red. Now I only blush when I'm really angry about something or when I have to give a speech in front of the class and I say something dumb. haha

 

[anuskas]

I can´t accept being like this, I get depressed... And even worse is when the person tells you that you are red! It started the other day, my social phobia returned... and now whenever I talk to him I blush... It happens also with the other men. What can I do? Be closed at home? Please help me because I have to work and to study! English is not my mother tongue but I hope you understand me!

 

[doesit]

try putting a ton of make up,should help

 

[MaliceInWickedland]

I usually blush when a guy compliments me or looks me in the eyes, or sometimes I will feel my face heat up randomly when I'm embarrassed or in an anxiety-driving situation, but my face isn't red or anything. It's kinda weird.

 

[simpsons2007]

I blush around everyone it doesn't matter if its male or female it still happens and I can't stop it, it gets very embarrassing. I even blush when I'm all alone in my house when things are on my mind. I don't know why it still happens when I'm on my own theres no one around to make me feel embarrassed so it really shouldn't happen. I guess I must be weired lol.

 

[armadillo]

i blush terribly but fortunately on my back! my face doesn't change but i feel my back get really hot. it happened once when i went to the osteopath who thought i had a heat rash on my back because it was all red. I knew i was just blushing because it was a male osteopath i hadn't been to before and i was embarrassed getting undressed in front of him.

 

[Error]

I find blushing really cute! I wish people could blush more. It's really pretty!

I know it might be hard for you, but that's my opinion.

 

[IGotSeoul]

i've been told that my ears turn red when i'm aroused

my ex-wife would watch me whenever i talked to another woman, and if my ears got red she'd get really mad

i'm sorry if it's inappropriate to laugh but this had me in tears of laughter

 

[Thundercats]

When I first kissed my girlfriend last week I blushed. She's outgoing but doesn't care about my SA, which is a bonus.

 

[Falkor]

I never actually blushed when it comes to the opposite gender,
I had a blushing fear when I was 13 though while having a first crush/in love thing.
It was so embarrassing, everytime when I looked ''my crush'' in the eyes I was red like a tomato :: It was pretty obvious to my classmates that I was crazy about this girl, but I never told her about this. I was feeling very ashamed of my blushing problem, even my friends asked if I were in love, I said ''NO, not at all.''
I couldn't tell them I was... But I know she was straight so that could have been the reason, or the fact that I knew people would pick on me if I tell them I am gay.

Later on, I dated some girls and had a few relationships (now have a relationship,btw) and I managed to stop my blushing fear. I just know how to control my emotions when it comes to blushing, I can force myself to not blush, so it doesn't happen a lot anymore :]

Though thinking back of school years back then, I feel kinda stupid.
But I guess it is quite normal too, I have this with eye contact basically.
Also, if people give me a compliment still. ;}

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

I just love a girl when she blushes. It's a sign of vitality. It's so.....irresistible!
Blushing Cheeks=I'm in love

I can imagine that it would be very inconvenient but a woman is most beautiful (I think) when she blushes....

 

[laure15]

I blush when talking to just about anybody I don't know or hardly know, doesn't matter the gender. Although I do tend to blush more if I'm talking to someone of the opposite sex that's attractive.

Same here!

I usually blush when a guy compliments me or looks me in the eyes, or sometimes I will feel my face heat up randomly when I'm embarrassed or in an anxiety-driving situation, but my face isn't red or anything. It's kinda weird.

Yeah, my face can look real pale but I can feel the heat and anxiety.