Usualy everybody wants to have children. Even if they say that they want them, it always means only, that they want them later. One day... It's like nobody's thinking about it. So they fall in love and have sex...
Ppl have sex all the time. I just wonder why i didn't realize it when I was young.... Really. Nobody had sex when I was young. But that's another story....
The problem now is, that every time i meet some woman, I don't want to try anything, because I know, that one say she want to have kids. And what's worse, I am really scared of getiing someone pregnant. I have some friends, who have children with not only one woman, single parents, divorced, married again... I even dont like to meet my old friends, coz they always take their children with them if we go somewhere. Now it really seems to me funny, its like people aren't people anymore, they're just factories for making children...
So it's now not possible to make any relationship. I even met nice women with older kids, really nice, but the fact they're mothers ruins it all.
There are two things... How to live with someone in pair. And how to have sex with no accident...
But the question is easy: are you too scared of being father/mother so much, that you are not able to start any relation or casual sex?
(p.s.: words like - when you fall in real love everything changes - don't work..
Ppl have sex all the time. I just wonder why i didn't realize it when I was young.... Really. Nobody had sex when I was young. But that's another story....
The problem now is, that every time i meet some woman, I don't want to try anything, because I know, that one say she want to have kids. And what's worse, I am really scared of getiing someone pregnant. I have some friends, who have children with not only one woman, single parents, divorced, married again... I even dont like to meet my old friends, coz they always take their children with them if we go somewhere. Now it really seems to me funny, its like people aren't people anymore, they're just factories for making children...
So it's now not possible to make any relationship. I even met nice women with older kids, really nice, but the fact they're mothers ruins it all.
There are two things... How to live with someone in pair. And how to have sex with no accident...
But the question is easy: are you too scared of being father/mother so much, that you are not able to start any relation or casual sex?
(p.s.: words like - when you fall in real love everything changes - don't work..