Sk8tergurl48
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As a new college student I have gotten used to bring surrounded by the "hookup culture" that is common among my peers. No one seems to have any qualms about getting intimate with others, even going all the way if they have strong enough feelings for them.
On the other hand, I've bee with my boyfriend since my first year of high school and compared to most people I know we've barely done anything sexually. Now that we're both in college together at the same school it seems like a much bigger deal. I want to do stuff for him that makes him happy, I really do, but my nervousness always gets the better of me. I even get sled-conscious of my kissing and I'm too scared to try anything else.
I'm really worried that he's starting to give up on getting any satisfaction from me. I just know that if I don't do something soon that he's going to find someone else who will. And hey, he deserves someone who will go out of their way to make him happy so I can't really blame him now can I? At lest that's how I feel lately...
Any advice?
On the other hand, I've bee with my boyfriend since my first year of high school and compared to most people I know we've barely done anything sexually. Now that we're both in college together at the same school it seems like a much bigger deal. I want to do stuff for him that makes him happy, I really do, but my nervousness always gets the better of me. I even get sled-conscious of my kissing and I'm too scared to try anything else.
I'm really worried that he's starting to give up on getting any satisfaction from me. I just know that if I don't do something soon that he's going to find someone else who will. And hey, he deserves someone who will go out of their way to make him happy so I can't really blame him now can I? At lest that's how I feel lately...
Any advice?