aien89
Well-known member
During christmas I broke up with my girlfriend after nine months together. I really felt that she took my love for granted. It was very hard accepting that she would now be gone from my daily life and I couldn’t think on anything else.
Then I starting internet dating and on the 31th of December, I started chatting with a girl and she asked for my phone number. Since then we’ve been texting during the day and webcaming during the nights and it was lovely because we really had alot of things in common. And for that reason she asked me to come see her in her city, which I did yesterday. Even though I have SAD, I really managed to do well and we ended up being together for two hours outside in her city. On the way home in the train, she texted me to ask if I wanted to meet up with her again. And I wrote that I had a lovely time and that I would like to see her again. She agreed and said that we also had alot of chemistry, but she had doubts because she thought I was ”too soft” and lacks ”edge” apparently.
It really made me sad! I told myself before hand not to have any expectations at all but the date went so, so well and still she rejected me. I spoke to my parents afterwards, and they told me that I should never get so emotionally attached after only meeting her once. But we just had so many things in common so I thought she was the right girl for me. And since yesterday I’ve just been feeling very sad and lonely. But why do I get so emotional? Does it have anything to do with my SAD?
Girls: Can you also get so emotionally attached in that short amount of time?
In some way it seems like, I need to be with a girl and feel her love. Without love I can’t concentrate on anything else in life and I just don’t know why. I’ve got love from my family and friends, but it’s not enough for me! So am I obsessed with love? :S
Thanks for listening
Then I starting internet dating and on the 31th of December, I started chatting with a girl and she asked for my phone number. Since then we’ve been texting during the day and webcaming during the nights and it was lovely because we really had alot of things in common. And for that reason she asked me to come see her in her city, which I did yesterday. Even though I have SAD, I really managed to do well and we ended up being together for two hours outside in her city. On the way home in the train, she texted me to ask if I wanted to meet up with her again. And I wrote that I had a lovely time and that I would like to see her again. She agreed and said that we also had alot of chemistry, but she had doubts because she thought I was ”too soft” and lacks ”edge” apparently.
It really made me sad! I told myself before hand not to have any expectations at all but the date went so, so well and still she rejected me. I spoke to my parents afterwards, and they told me that I should never get so emotionally attached after only meeting her once. But we just had so many things in common so I thought she was the right girl for me. And since yesterday I’ve just been feeling very sad and lonely. But why do I get so emotional? Does it have anything to do with my SAD?
Girls: Can you also get so emotionally attached in that short amount of time?
In some way it seems like, I need to be with a girl and feel her love. Without love I can’t concentrate on anything else in life and I just don’t know why. I’ve got love from my family and friends, but it’s not enough for me! So am I obsessed with love? :S
Thanks for listening